Men: how do you feel about women who get regular botox, fillers, etc?

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Just get the work done and don’t tell them. They can go on their merry way thinking you are ~naturally gorgeous~ and you can save yourself the headache of justifying something that’s not their business to begin with.

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Anonymous wrote:🤮 I prefer my women to look natural. I’m 55. My girlfriend is 54. She is extremely good looking for her age, but she uses no fillers and no plastic surgery and I liver her just the way she looks.

Yeah of course you love that she’s good-looking. But if a woman isn’t she needs help. That’s how it works. No man is gonna say “my wife aged like ass and I LOVE IT.”

NP. They want “their women” completely natural and also extraordinarily good looking for their age. So just, do that. Duh.

It's funny how you all keep blaming this on men, but I rarely if ever hear a man complain about the way a woman looks when it comes to wrinkles or whateve. It's ALWAYS women point at other women saying she needs to do this that and the other thing to look better.

No they don’t complain they just get divorced and marry a woman who looks younger (either because she actually is or has invested in looking younger).

This doesn't happen most of the time. Most older men are with women their same age, and both looked aged. I'm sorry that's been your experience. I'm sorry your self-esteem is so low and you have internalized misogyny so much. I think your money would be better spent in therapy than Botox. At the very least you should widen your horizons.

I have wonderfully high self esteem friend, so spend that pity on someone else.

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Anonymous wrote:🤮 I prefer my women to look natural. I’m 55. My girlfriend is 54. She is extremely good looking for her age, but she uses no fillers and no plastic surgery and I liver her just the way she looks.

Yeah of course you love that she’s good-looking. But if a woman isn’t she needs help. That’s how it works. No man is gonna say “my wife aged like ass and I LOVE IT.”

NP. They want “their women” completely natural and also extraordinarily good looking for their age. So just, do that. Duh.

It's funny how you all keep blaming this on men, but I rarely if ever hear a man complain about the way a woman looks when it comes to wrinkles or whateve. It's ALWAYS women point at other women saying she needs to do this that and the other thing to look better.

No they don’t complain they just get divorced and marry a woman who looks younger (either because she actually is or has invested in looking younger).

This doesn't happen most of the time. Most older men are with women their same age, and both looked aged. I'm sorry that's been your experience. I'm sorry your self-esteem is so low and you have internalized misogyny so much. I think your money would be better spent in therapy than Botox. At the very least you should widen your horizons.

I have wonderfully high self esteem friend, so spend that pity on someone else.

You don't , and its extremely obvious.

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Anonymous wrote:🤮 I prefer my women to look natural. I’m 55. My girlfriend is 54. She is extremely good looking for her age, but she uses no fillers and no plastic surgery and I liver her just the way she looks.

Yeah of course you love that she’s good-looking. But if a woman isn’t she needs help. That’s how it works. No man is gonna say “my wife aged like ass and I LOVE IT.”

NP. They want “their women” completely natural and also extraordinarily good looking for their age. So just, do that. Duh.

It's funny how you all keep blaming this on men, but I rarely if ever hear a man complain about the way a woman looks when it comes to wrinkles or whateve. It's ALWAYS women point at other women saying she needs to do this that and the other thing to look better.

No they don’t complain they just get divorced and marry a woman who looks younger (either because she actually is or has invested in looking younger).

This doesn't happen most of the time. Most older men are with women their same age, and both looked aged. I'm sorry that's been your experience. I'm sorry your self-esteem is so low and you have internalized misogyny so much. I think your money would be better spent in therapy than Botox. At the very least you should widen your horizons.

I have wonderfully high self esteem friend, so spend that pity on someone else.

You don't , and its extremely obvious.

Pp, never play off the “I feel sorry for you, you need therapy” posts on dcum! What is this, amateur hour?

[Anonymous]

I hate anything plastic. It sucks and you need to get it done again after every 5-6 months. WTF

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t listen to what men say on this, watch who they are looking at.

Preach

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Dh told me he was so glad I didn't do that stuff , how odd those women looked and was lucky I looked young naturally

Little does he know I started Botox 5 years ago and for llers (lights subtle) 2 years ago.

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Anonymous wrote:🤮 I prefer my women to look natural. I’m 55. My girlfriend is 54. She is extremely good looking for her age, but she uses no fillers and no plastic surgery and I liver her just the way she looks.

Exactly, for those women who are less good looking, you just deem them as invisible.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it amazing, and depressing, how we keep inventing things for women to spend money on to make themselves look better. I’m almost 50 and I feel like when I was young women didn’t do any of this. Now everyone gets mani/pedi, public hair waxed or lasered off (and often other hair as well), Botox, fillers, not to mention hair extensions and dye and actual plastic surgery. It’s amazing to me how pervasive all this is.

I don’t do any of it. I’m lazy and I guess I don’t care all that much what I look like.

I agree. When are we going to figure out what’s valuable is in the brain 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ha okay so my mom says this, that what’s on the outside really doesn’t matter, and she looks insane. I’m sure both PPs would judge her appearance pretty harshly. She doesn’t get good haircuts and hair is constantly frizzy, she wears no makeup ever, and she just wears whatever she happens to see from goodwill, no matter the pattern or fit or brand (she does buy good-quality stuff though).

I adore my mom, but I want to put more effort into my appearance. And that doesn’t mean I don’t know that it is far from the most important thing in life.

And of course the next question is at what point is too much when it comes to putting effort into your appearance? How different is, say, teeth whitening from Botox? Yes Botox is more invasive but they are both expensive cosmetic procedures you don’t need.

you know it's possible to be well-groomed and attractive without teeth whitening and botox. If you want to engage in cosmetic procedures that's fine, but it's ridiculous to act like if you don't get them you look like a slob.

I was responding to the statement that “what’s valuable is in the brain.” I never said you had to get those things.

And my mom doesn’t look like a slob. She is clean, her hair is brushed, etc. She just doesn’t look good because she thinks her appearance isn’t important.

People who wear makeup, get nice haircuts (and maybe even some dye to cover their grays), make sure their clothes flatter their figures, have their kids get braces, etc. really shouldn’t judge somebody who gets a couple shots to smooth out their forehead.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it amazing, and depressing, how we keep inventing things for women to spend money on to make themselves look better. I’m almost 50 and I feel like when I was young women didn’t do any of this. Now everyone gets mani/pedi, public hair waxed or lasered off (and often other hair as well), Botox, fillers, not to mention hair extensions and dye and actual plastic surgery. It’s amazing to me how pervasive all this is.

I don’t do any of it. I’m lazy and I guess I don’t care all that much what I look like.

I agree. When are we going to figure out what’s valuable is in the brain 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ha okay so my mom says this, that what’s on the outside really doesn’t matter, and she looks insane. I’m sure both PPs would judge her appearance pretty harshly. She doesn’t get good haircuts and hair is constantly frizzy, she wears no makeup ever, and she just wears whatever she happens to see from goodwill, no matter the pattern or fit or brand (she does buy good-quality stuff though).

I adore my mom, but I want to put more effort into my appearance. And that doesn’t mean I don’t know that it is far from the most important thing in life.

And of course the next question is at what point is too much when it comes to putting effort into your appearance? How different is, say, teeth whitening from Botox? Yes Botox is more invasive but they are both expensive cosmetic procedures you don’t need.

you know it's possible to be well-groomed and attractive without teeth whitening and botox. If you want to engage in cosmetic procedures that's fine, but it's ridiculous to act like if you don't get them you look like a slob.

I was responding to the statement that “what’s valuable is in the brain.” I never said you had to get those things.

And my mom doesn’t look like a slob. She is clean, her hair is brushed, etc. She just doesn’t look good because she thinks her appearance isn’t important.

People who wear makeup, get nice haircuts (and maybe even some dye to cover their grays), make sure their clothes flatter their figures, have their kids get braces, etc. really shouldn’t judge somebody who gets a couple shots to smooth out their forehead.

I do the haircut/dye, wear Invisalign, use retinol and a personal trainer. I justify by saying that those money are well spent since better aligned teeth helps with long term life quality and personal trainers help correct body alignments so I can continue to be pain free.

But tummy tuck or facelift are too much as far as pain / long term benefit ratio is not optimal.

Botox is in the middle, probably more painful than a work out but less painful than a tummy tuck.

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Anonymous wrote:You look at their face. The Botox is pretty obvious

Not really. Botox applied well is not obvious.

My wife gets it like 2x times a year for forehead wrinkles. I don't notice the difference tbh. As long as she feels good about it and it doesn't look crazy I'm fine with it.

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Anonymous wrote:Just get the work done and don’t tell them. They can go on their merry way thinking you are ~naturally gorgeous~ and you can save yourself the headache of justifying something that’s not their business to begin with.

Yep! He HATES anything cosmetic that is obvious and thinks it is either weird or fake and thinks he can "always tell."

Meh. I've had a short or two to the 11s and no one is the wiser.

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Anonymous wrote:Just get the work done and don’t tell them. They can go on their merry way thinking you are ~naturally gorgeous~ and you can save yourself the headache of justifying something that’s not their business to begin with.

Yep! He HATES anything cosmetic that is obvious and thinks it is either weird or fake and thinks he can "always tell."

Meh. I've had a short or two to the 11s and no one is the wiser.

So you are deceitful and vain. Got it.

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Anonymous wrote:Just get the work done and don’t tell them. They can go on their merry way thinking you are ~naturally gorgeous~ and you can save yourself the headache of justifying something that’s not their business to begin with.

Yep! He HATES anything cosmetic that is obvious and thinks it is either weird or fake and thinks he can "always tell."

Meh. I've had a short or two to the 11s and no one is the wiser.

So you are deceitful and vain. Got it.

DP. She still wins bc she’s not a miserable witch like you.

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Anonymous wrote:Just get the work done and don’t tell them. They can go on their merry way thinking you are ~naturally gorgeous~ and you can save yourself the headache of justifying something that’s not their business to begin with.

Yep! He HATES anything cosmetic that is obvious and thinks it is either weird or fake and thinks he can "always tell."

Meh. I've had a short or two to the 11s and no one is the wiser.

So sad.