+1000 Times are different...where you go to grad school/professional school may matter more these days... |
Your daughter has a good record and UVA will give her a serious look. William & Mary won't, because she's a girl. They'll use her SATs an an excuse to ding her in favor of a less qualified boy. I'd strongly recommend that she take a hard look at VCU for pre-med. They have some sort of guaranteed admission to their med school, and they're very good at health professions across the board. And they'd love to have her. She'd be much better off going there over JMU or GMU. |
I'm not the poster who said JMU is high school 2.0. The point is that our daughter was a better student than the two or three dozen of her classmates who went to JMU, and she wanted something better for her efforts. |
Real mature. |
While that might be true, I honestly don't know, it sounds SO incredibly snotty and elitest. Also, new flash - just going to UVA does not automatically translate into EITHER a more successful career or, more importantly, a happy or fulfilled life. GET OVER YOURSELF. And even if your kid is a great fit for UVA, that does NOT make other choices bad or inappropriate for all the kids you clearly look down upon - ya know, the kids who are only in the top 1/3. You're nauseating. |
What an... interesting mindset. |
Then she should have worked harder to get it. No participation trophies in college admissions. Stop whining and move on. The problem was that she and likely you as well were so hell bent on UVA that everywhere else was a runner up. |
You do realize most students (beyond freshmen) live off-campus at large universities, right? That doesn't make them "commuter schools."
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Exactly. Big difference. |
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What if she prefers JMU and/or CNU?
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Same with my kids. Similar stats as your DD, but uninterested in either UVA or W&M. |
DP. You are truly missing the point if you think students "settle" for JMU, etc. Many kids CHOOSE JMU over other, more widely recognized schools. Why? Because it's a great fit for them. JMU offers something for everyone. It's clear you can't imagine someone choosing JMU (or VT, or GMU, etc.) over your "Big Ten" wish list, but that's just ridiculous. My kids wouldn't want anything to do with a Big Ten school. Your first choice (or rather, your CHILD's first choice - hopefully) isn't at all what my kids' would be. Some people go for the right fit, period. |
You are truly delusional. Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Michigan State, Nebraska, Ohio State, etc. are "better"?? What's with your weird Big 10 obsession? It's kind of sad. |
I've never understood that line of thinking. I have three kids, all in VA state universities. They've all confirmed that it's a myth you'll run into people from high school all the time (or ever). Two of them at larger schools have never run into their former high school classmates. |