| I rinse out and dry used dental floss and use it again. |
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I was super poor in grad school and used to attend events on campus just for food so that I wouldn't have to buy groceries for dinner. Any events. The best free food was served at Young Republicans meetings at ANOTHER university. I didn't attend that university, and I'm not a Republican, but I sure used to appreciate the free spicy salmon rolls.
During a low point, I once went into McDonalds, bought a black coffee, then took a bag of ketchup packets, which I ate for dinner. As I've explained, I was super poor in grad school. |
Whoa! Super poor indeed. |
I never bought into replacing toothbrushes every three months. I'll use them until they're frazzled -- at least a year. |
| only houseguest never vacation or hotel or rental. |
OMG my husband does this too! No, I don't want the bright green and yellow Subway napkin on the dining table, sorry. |
| Make sure my cell phone is fully charged before leaving the office and heading home. |
NP. Not cheapskate, I think. Frugal. I'm glad someone was using the milk instead of tossing it. Same thing with the bagel pp. |
I could see doing this on principle. Also, they may have been doing this to hundreds of other customers. |
PP. My mother wasn't just poor but lived through a war as a small child, was a refugee. Lost her father. Her hoarding was from trauma and her "cheapskate" actions reached the level of mental illness. I have other relatives and know others who lived through the same thing and they didn't do this. Growing up she had piles of used washed out plastic bags, aluminum foil, etc. that got bigger as she grew older and all the kids left. Just a mess. Crazy mess. By the end, my siblings and I couldn't even go into the house we grew up in because it was full of garbage. |
People react differently to trauma. My mom hoards. One brother became an alcoholic. A sister had four divorced. The youngest brother is so morbidly obese he had seven strokes before age 50. |
| I go to get my hair cut and colored at a home salon. Half the price of regular salon. However her house is FILTHY. Like dead mouse in the bathroom filthy. I can afford to go to regular salon, but I’m a cheapskate. |
| My best friend is beyond thrifty. We were staying at her house, she bathed her kids (four of them) in the same bath water. She left it standing for me to put my kid in. No way. I drained the water, cleaned the tub and put my kid in nice fresh bath |
My mother has two sisters and they are nice normal people with clean houses... not crazy/drug addicted/married only once/ slim/etc so some people go through the same trauma, but don’t end up so completely damaged. |
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When I was at college I would occasionally go another part of town and one time I was offered a ride with the classes car pool club. Everyone insisted so I accepted the ride
A month later the same happened. Then I was told by the driver that the other students, people I knew, were getting angry at me riding for free. I was shocked that they would do that when I only occasionally accepted and would have taken the bus if it hadn't been for their insistence. She was lying and just wanted me to pay her for the ride. I accept she wanted to charge me, but not that she used the others and lied |