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Anonymous wrote:I did hear girls talking about this test at a recent sleepover. Not sure about trolls on this thread, but I did my research, had my daughter try out SCAT test format to understand directions and save time on test day.
We all took PSAT and some form of SAT's and improved scores from one to other - because being familiar with test format is key to success in standardized school environment. So let the parents of genius kids yell and throw fits, we the educated parents will learn the system and guide our kids as we see fit. I usually get test prep books on Amazon - hey it's better than TV or video games anyways! Even if competition is fierce , our kids are only getting smarter.
The winners aren't allowing sleepovers...[/quote]
What does it even mean?
I think this refers to moms like the one in Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother who never allow their kids sleepovers or social lives.
This is pretty common in some cultures (speaking as someone who married into one myself, although we don't have those rules in our household). It's just a foreign concept to them and a way to control bad influences as well - why would someone want to sleep somewhere other than their own bed? What are they doing at night that they can't do in the daytime? I have seen it backfire with child rebelliousness a number of times and have the unintended effect (not just sleepovers, but other control of social lives), but it is a child rearing choice, just like so many others. We all do the best we can based on what we know.
My child got invited to take the test, and took it by her own choice (we did not influence her at all-in fact, I had a number of heart to hearts with her on why she wanted to do it). She's only interested in TPMS magnet because she is very motivated in the sciences and wants to be challenged more than she has at her elementary school. However, our home middle school is fantastic. So, I am struggling on if it is worth it, between the upheaval in social life (but she actually is extremely adept socially so I'm not too worried) and the exhausting bus schedule (although I also had a long bus ride growing up living in a rural area so feel that is also doable). I've read so many positive posts on here about TPMS magnet that I told her there are no bad paths here - if she gets into magnet, great. If she doesn't, great. She's got amazing options. I also have been coaching her not to be too upset if she doesn't get in, as well. She said she'd be sad, but she's pretty resilient. I think I've been worrying more about it than she has because I just don't want her to get too anxious about it.