| The thread symbolizes America for the last 2 decades. The Latinos. Asians, and Indians never bitch about the admissions process. Its always the whites pointing out that the blacks that get admitted are objectively less qualified than those who were refused admission from these other groups and the blacks steadfatly refusing to acknowledge that reality. |
So, you DC did NOT get into Harvard. Nobody cares about your kids admission process. |
| Wait till Bschool where you are point blank told you have to best your "applicant cohort" whilst they create their statistically diverse class. Asians have it worst. |
Thank goodness my kid is a good hockey player plus all of the above. I might go look at his coach's recruiting website again... Go BeanPot 2019! |
| Mine will continue to parley the longstanding and multi-generational affirmative action policy of legacy (silent code for White race) |
| The system has been stacked against AAs for a long time. Most AA kids are still in low quality public schools. I think as a society, we deserve to give them a boost in college admissions. Yes, some wealthy AA families get an unfair boost but they are a minuscule number. I am a white parent and am eternally grateful that my kids don't have to deal with the stigma of racism, unconscious bias and police targeting. Asians generally have a positive bias towards them which can be a help overall rather than an obstacle. Most people tend to generalize and assume when they meet an Asian person that they must be smart, hardworking and good at math whether that is actually true for the individual or not. Positive biases can be very helpful in pushing individuals along in life in a positive direction whether a person realizes it or not. |
Most of what you wrote is reasonable, but this is not true. Any strong bias that prevents you from seeing a person as a whole is problematic. And while people stereotype Asians as smart, they also stereotype them as lacking creativity and being only book-smart. It can cut both ways. I was the top of my class at a competitive, private HS, and anyone who knew me at all knew that I had basically zero interest in going into a lucrative profession like medicine (both my parents were MDs). Guess what? In a local newspaper article about top students a school administrator with whom I had a good relationship, I thought, and whose class I was currently taking was talking about how I was planning to go to med school...based on literally nothing but the fact that I'm Indian-American. Off-topic but ironically for this thread, I also had turned down admission to Harvard, which was kind of a big deal to have done at the time. |
I agree with the first bolded sentence, and strongly disagree with the second for many reasons. The most important reason is that it doesn't fix the real issue. ALL kids deserve good public school, a strong and safe community, and a loving family. Giving a few black kids a space in an elite school that they are not prepared (or qualified) for is not likely to help them or the thousands of kids who are stuck with crappy public schools. Also, even if the numbers are small (and I don't think they are as small as affirmative action advocates want to believe they are), the kids who work hard enough to have a fighting chance at admission to elite schools are not the part of "society" that should have to pay the price for crappy public schools. It is shameful that our schools are still so bad. The blame falls on many shoulders, including parents who don't give a crap about education, don't expect anything of their children or the schools, and expect someone else to solve the problem. It also falls on the shoulders of administrators and politicians who refuse to tell people what they don't want to hear. It falls on the shoulders of taxpayers who don't want to pay decent salaries to great teachers. I think we should stop AA based on race, put more money toward improving schools and increasing the number of black students who deserve and are prepared for elite institutions (because there is no inherent reason they can't be), and stop making excuses. |
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+1. The assumption is also that Asians are pleasant and happy to take a backseat no matter the qualifications. In that light, of course the view is generally positive and the chagrin over the realization that we're not interested in our children having a ceiling, This has been an ugly discussion based on an assumption that we want for our children preferential treatment. More to the point we want equal.
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| Need based scholarships have mostly disappeared. Schools need to look way beyond scores, grades, clubs to delve into the actual grit of minority applicants from lower income backgrounds. The Ivies are trying and lots of other schools need to try harder. Look at SCOTUS Justice Sonia Sotomayor, from the projects, worked retail in h.s. and scholarship to Catholic high. She didn't have the highest grades, the top test scores or the club presidencies but she had the grit. |
I'm a white parent of white kids. I agree with the bolded statements, but here's my concern: most of the kids accepted by Harvard whom they label as "AA" are NOT the ones with low SES status. Look at the above-cited figures on SES distribution at Harvard. Harvard is taking well-to-do AA's and wealthy Nigerians, etc. That's their version of affirmative action! I strongly support taking lower-scoring kids from disadvantaged backgrounds -- if they've done well in school and engaged in the world, then I'd put my money on them to achieve in adulthood as well! BUT it's a sham for Harvard to take a Nigerian oilman's boarding-school-educated son and then count him in its "African American" or even "diverse" numbers -- and then showcase those numbers as evidence of practicing affirmative action! Yet that's the story at Harvard and other top schools. Watch this piece: https://www.eurweb.com/2017/08/harvard-admits-blacks-african-american-video/# Its black author cites criticism by Lani Guinier and Henry Louis Gates about the high numbers of blacks and "African Americans" who are NOT African American, who are NOT from families that have suffered the effects of slavery. To use the words of the video, those black international students "don't bear the costs of the legacy of slavery." Harvard and other schools aren't faithful to the intent of affirmative action. That's the hypocrisy that doesn't get talked about. I'd love to see schools practice REAL affirmative action, and not the fraud they're peddling as affirmative action. |
I don't think this is what the conversation string has been about. We're talking about discrimination based on race not SES. |
+1 Low income kids also come in other colors. |
Thanks for being honest. What irks is when people claim it's not a real advantage; their kids are just naturally more interesting despite doing all the exact same things our kids do. |
Who doesn't claim being a legacy is an advantage? It's an often spoken about advantage. |