What is your biggest stressor in life right now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The cult of stupidity

Our children will live in a land run by old white Christian child abusers women haters and criminals

Yes this keeps me up at night

Especially thinking of college educated Catholic women that voted for this shit.

Yep I’m
Calling them out sane with orthodox. Jews.

+1

I can't stand the world and specifically the country that we will leave for our children. It keeps me up at night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cancer.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My health.

Same. It's just a litany of things that I have very little control over. I have regular screenings, take all my medications, eat well, and exercise. And it's not enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sending ASD 1 child to college. Fingers crossed.

Ah, I’m right there with you, PP. [/



Me too 🙋‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My spouse verbally threatened to kill me in an argument. I ldon't know what to do. Did he mean it? Probably not? I hate drama, but I'm probably never going to get over it or feel at peace again now. Who do I even tell?

Please go chat to the police about it. Just to ask advice. They will have contacts for women’s shelters and other services. Remember Gabby who was strangled and nobody believed that the boyfriend was capable of it. It can happen very quickly. Save yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:While work is stressful, my biggest stress is watching what's happening to our country under this administration and feeling helpless. I see women's rights being stripped away one at a time, our president openly taking bribes, alienating our allies, targeting those with the political party that does not align with his views, and treating immigrants as if they are all criminals and dehumanizing them,and worst of all, people still support him. I don't know what stresses me out more. Him or those that support him and allowed this to happen to our country and seem gleeful about it. I'm 61, I don't recognize our country anymore. I see job of prospects are horrible for my children, companies are laying off rather than hiring. I can go on and on. I feel like I'm watching a train wreck and I can't stop it.

Please list the women’s rights that are being stripped away, one at a time.

REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS

yup and asshat pastors trying to repeal the 19th amendment and trumps administration supporting it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The cult of stupidity

Our children will live in a land run by old white Christian child abusers women haters and criminals

Yes this keeps me up at night

Especially thinking of college educated Catholic women that voted for this shit.

Yep I’m
Calling them out sane with orthodox. Jews.

+1

I can't stand the world and specifically the country that we will leave for our children. It keeps me up at night.

Me too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My spouse verbally threatened to kill me in an argument. I ldon't know what to do. Did he mean it? Probably not? I hate drama, but I'm probably never going to get over it or feel at peace again now. Who do I even tell?

Please go chat to the police about it. Just to ask advice. They will have contacts for women’s shelters and other services. Remember Gabby who was strangled and nobody believed that the boyfriend was capable of it. It can happen very quickly. Save yourself.

Chatting with the police “for advice” is a TERRIBLE suggestion

[Anonymous]

Cancer, and the fear that I’m going to leave my child an orphan. I’m her only parent.

[Anonymous]

Feeling lost and disconnected from the world when my two DDs are with the other parent. Ex was mentally, verbally and financially abusive and now uses our kids to get to me.

Found out ex dropped them off at rec center type place for over 6 hours yesterday. They had lunch and dinner there. Meanwhile, ex was getting drunk.

I can’t afford a PI, and kids will swear that parent was there the whole time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My spouse verbally threatened to kill me in an argument. I ldon't know what to do. Did he mean it? Probably not? I hate drama, but I'm probably never going to get over it or feel at peace again now. Who do I even tell?

Please go chat to the police about it. Just to ask advice. They will have contacts for women’s shelters and other services. Remember Gabby who was strangled and nobody believed that the boyfriend was capable of it. It can happen very quickly. Save yourself.

Chatting with the police “for advice” is a TERRIBLE suggestion

Police will ask what you want them to do about it. Use a computer at a public library to do some research on the laws in your state.

Consult with an attorney or at the very least, your county’s domestic violence center. Make sure you write down the threat details in a locked app. Include how the threat made you feel and if any witnesses. This will likely not be the last time you feel unsafe. Protect yourself.

[Anonymous]

I posted a thread about a year ago about a friend who I found out was an alcoholic. She moved to where i live from across the country with her family.

A year later this is still a huge stressor for me. She got a liver transplant but was in the ICU for two months after, and now is in a rehab facility for PT/OT. She still hasn't come totally clean about the drinking. She can't work, has kids, wants to leave her husband, all kinds of things.

This on top of trying to deal with aging parents, busy teens, a crazy job - it's a lot. But I told my DH over the weekend I feel a year ago she left a giant sack of s**t on my front step and he added "then she lit it on fire." I have tried to be a good friend and feel so bad for her but at this point after a year of providing support I am at the end of my rope on this.

[Anonymous]

^^^^ Poster with the friend above - also want to say I got excellent advice on DCUM off my initial post that I have referred to many times in the ensuing months.

[Anonymous]

My teen's health. He's having a complicated surgery for cyst removal in a month and I'm just really nervous about it. But obviously being confident on the outside for his well-being.

[Anonymous]

My list: 1. My pending divorce lawsuit with no hope for a signed MSA and I don't have the bandwidth to deal with all the document requests and mentally don't think it is possible to have a clean break due to kids and finances. Thinking of withdrawing the lawsuit, but not sure if that is wise; 2. One kid is senior and is stressing up about applying to college, with decisions whether to REA/ED lottery schools when GPA/SAT is less than ideal; 3. Another kid got into a fight at school and hurt himself; 4. Workload in office is piling up with malicious colleagues free riding on my efforts and I don't know whether to "downgrade" my output in order not to let the free rider succeeds or I should just let go and focus on doing my best; 5. My health with on and off high blood pressure and heavy period while on HRT when I should be menopause already. 6. I look tired and old with eye bags, sagging cheeks, wrinkle and grey hair!!

I find it hard to be happy at this stage of my life. Constantly looking for small moments to cheer me up. Blue sky, white cloud, making food that kids like ...