
Ironically, Jackie Kennedy also died of cancer - after undergoing chemotherapy and radiation treatment. I doubt anyone complained that she didn’t “spread enough awareness” or criticized her for not working while undergoing treatment. |
Good point. |
Yup. She was only 64. |
She was a private citizen then - 30 years since she'd been First Lady. Charles and Kate (supposedly) work for the British people. There's no comparison. |
Disagree. Kate was gone for basically the whole year and it was barely a blip. |
A blip? For the first quarter of last year, the entire world was frantically looking for her. Not a blip. |
Great news she is in remission. It must have been so tough for her especially with all the cruel gossip, speculating on her marriage. |
Charles is the only Monarch though, and Kate will never be. And Charles has never said what he has and I don't hear anyone 'disappointed' in him like they are Kate. |
Her PR team or she thought the abdominal options--colon cancer with the possibility of a colostomy bag, or a hysterectomy--were better? I don't think so. |
Really? Well how about Deborah James, the "Bowel Babe," who during her remaining years did great work raising awareness about colon cancer. She died just a year or two ago. |
Who? |
He's not a woman. |
She's a British newscaster and celebrity. You can google her. |
I admire people who share the details of their cancer to advocate for public awareness. It's an extra thing on top of admiring them for getting through cancer at all. I couldn't do it, and would never expect anyone to do it, and certainly wouldn't shame anyone for not taking that on, especially if they're just wrapping treatment themselves. |
+2. Some of my British relatives have had cancer and been treated privately there (you can get private insurance instead of using NHS), and they have thoughts. They wish her team briefed her better. Even the recent visit to the hospital was confusing, what with her not wearing a mask around immunocompromised cancer patients, telling them to get lots of sunlight (a big no-no for chemo patients), telling potentially terminal patients that "there's a light at the end of the tunnel," and dragging a camera crew (masked one hopes) along to photograph her looking up at a door she never went through as a patient who used private entrances. I have lots of relatives in Britain and visit frequently. The biggest pushback there seems to be that she (and William) are looking at this as a get-out-of-work-for-life card. It's completely understandable that Kate would want to spend time with her family in the wake of treatment. But all three children are in school now, so she could surely find a few hours to cut ribbons, maybe even just one day a week. The hopeful speculation above, that "soon" she'll go back to work hard for cancer causes, is unconvincing. There's also a debate in Britain about what "royal work" is and is not. Some say cutting ribbons isn't work and that the royals are basically grifters. I disagree. None of them are going to be neurosurgeons, let's face it. Instead, cutting ribbons does bring attention to the causes and patronages. I want the monarchy to survive, but the announcements every 6-8 weeks about "Kate's return," followed immediately by KP clarifying "but don't expect her to return to work," are having a discouraging impact. The late Queen understood very well that showing a sense of public service and duty was crucial for the preservation of a monarchy that receives millions from the Treasury and many other financial and legal benefits. |