Maybe bad essays? Maybe not community oriented and too self-focused? |
First of all, congrats to the parent whose daughter got into Stanford. I have in-law family members that went to GMU, and no disrespect to that school. But as a Stanford alum myself, I'd echo this quote above. The university experience is often as much about the people with whom you surround yourself as anything else, and at Stanford, your daughter will be exposed to (and inevitably inspired by) an incredibly talented, ambitious (for good and bad), provocative cohort of students, professors, alumni, administrators, and related associates. There's a wealth of resources at the school, paralleled only by other top tier schools. You can't put a figure on the opportunities that present themselves in an environment like that, and that tuition cost difference will likely become inconsequential down the line as your daughter progresses in her career. Also, have you visited the campus yet? It's gorgeous and idyllic, not to mention the great Palo Alto weather. |
More entrepreneurial focus helps. |
She was accepted. |
Perfect test scores are necessary but not sufficient. If it takes up so much of your time and effort to maximize tests scores that you don't even have time to start-up and run a multi million dollar business on the side, do you really have what it takes? |
What are you talking about? https://www.wipo.int/en/ipfactsandfigures/patents |
| There's a reason millions of international students want to study in the US and a fraction of US students want to study abroad. |
Applied to and was accepted at MIT but couldn’t afford to go since my parents had too much HHI but hadn’t actually saved anything for any of us for college. Instead, I attended George Mason University and spent $0 to get a B.S. degree in electrical engineering as a University Scholar. After that, I applied to MIT again and was awarded a research fellowship in AeroAstro. Received my S.M. and Ph.D. degrees in Aerospace Engineering. Again, both for $0 in exchange for banging out a dozen or so peer-reviewed conference and journal papers. Now I am an executive at SpaceX, 5 years after completing my Ph.D., making $425K, and now enrolled at Penn in the Wharton Executive MBA program…yet again for $0, thanks to my generous employer! One bachelors, two masters, one doctorate, one Ivy, two T10 schools, one prestigious scholarship, and one prestigious research fellowship. All for $0?!? There’s no way I’m embarrassed for having attended GMU — it’s the icing on the cake, as it were. There’s only one catch: you actually need to be willing to work hard. |
Sounds like you are still paying catch up in your 30s, but lack the self-awareness to realize it. Since you are insecure enough to tout your credentials on an anonymous message board, and remain such a striver, I think you unwittingly make an excellent case for Stanford. |
Only making $425k as a SpaceX executive? |
And what reason is that? |
I think the PP would have been better off going to MIT if he could but calling him a striver is hilarious. There is no better way to tell on yourself than to call others striver. That's a word the people who are wealthy enough not to worry about losing SES (and the SES of their children) use to describe people with SES mobility. You think the kids at stanford aren't strivers? LOL. They're not coasting through life. |
DP, VP is an executive position. You should google salaries. Too many people have highly unrealistic views of what people earn. |
I'd imagine a VP would make more than a software manager, who is making $600k+ at SpaceX? https://www.levels.fyi/companies/spacex/salaries/software-engineering-manager |
Stanford is the wiser choice--especially so if she can complete her undergraduate degree without taking out any student loans. Many law schools offer merit scholarship money, but not the Top 3 law schools (Harvard, Stanford, & Yale). Astute law school admissions officers will value your daughter's BS in CS from Stanford University as will law firms which hire IP lawyers. Because she received no need based financial aid from Stanford and because she has at least $250,000 available to her in college savings, Stanford is the easy answer. |