I went there and it felt like a grind at times; from everything I hear it’s more of a grind now. Some of this might be that Princeton feels like a (lovely) bubble so it’s harder to maintain perspective. The suicides at Princeton over the last several years are tragic and while the causes are complex, I’m sure, they seem like a sign something is wrong. The school needs to do more and take some responsibility. |
| Residential college system at Yale was more appealing to me than eating clubs at Princeton but your daughter may feel the opposite. |
| It’s very difficult to transfer to a different residential college at Yale if you end up at one that doesn’t appeal to you for whatever reason. |
SPIA is the school of public and international affairs, a very well known high ranking program. It was renamed which is probably why you don’t know what it is but many do. Not sure why CS is being compared to SPIA. Many will say CS at Princeton is better than CS at Yale. |
Princeton does have a residential college system. It is one of the reasons why I like Princeton. Eating clubs are only for juniors and seniors. Also, a student does not have to join an eating club if they don't want to. I know many students who go independent, join co-ops, or who remain on the university dining plan. There are many options for upperclassmen. They are not forced to join an eating club. When you enter Princeton first year students are automatically placed into a particular residential college and they can't join eating clubs anyway. As a parent of a recent Yale graduate (2025) and a current student (sophomore) at Princeton. I have a better insight on the specifics of both institutions. The OP can't go wrong with either school. They are both similar in many ways, however I think Princeton is the better option for STEM majors. I don't think a student would be at a disadvantage at either Yale or Princeton. They are phenomenal institutions. It really boils down to major, the structure of the programs and where the student wants to reside. The resources, job placement, internship placement, and research opportunities at both schools are amazing. |
Not really. Most students don't do this, but if you do want to switch, the process is not complicated. |
+1000 from another Yalie The residential colleges are randomly assigned, you don't have to apply like a fraternity - which turned me off of the eating clubs |
+1 The vast majority do not switch colleges, but I know a few who did no problem. I never heard of anyone who wanted to switch and could not. |
Yale has all sorts of selective clubs, including the infamous "secret societies"; if anything, they are more overtly exclusive than Princeton eating clubs. |
Comparing the exclusionary nature of certain organizations at Princeton and Yale is not going to yield anything wildly significantly different. They are both going to have plenty of gears oiled by connections like every other elite institution in this country. Take your pick of wine over the other but that is not going to be the best area to try to differentiate the two. |
One over the other ..not wine*. Even if the corruption does sometimes drive one to want to drink. |
Because OP's kid is choosing between SPIA at P vs CS+Econ at Yale. CS rigor is not a priority for this kids. |
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. Oh, that is odd. Why not the Jackson school at Yale which is the SPIA equivalent. |
Half the eating clubs are sign in, meaning anyone can sign up. It’s really a non issue and it starts junior year. I know plenty of Princeton grads who weren’t in a club… they chose to be independent or in coops. All freshmen and sophomores eat in dining halls and that’s plenty of time to find friends. It’s the least of my concerns. |