It actually does, but your too triggered to read this input and think critically about it. Perhaps you're a new student who has not been taught reading comprehension and critical thinking. |
Columbia is not a SLAC. Name a SLAC that does not have a writing center. I didn't call the professor racist, I said they have blinders on, perhaps it's a white girl with a baby going to college that they treat differently... that's not race and it might not even be SES. But they treat students one way based on something due to myopic thinking. They expect every student to fit one singluar riduculously tiny mold. I had a professor ask me if they could fix the speaker to Teams because they heard children in the background... during COVID. Yea sorry some student's have children, get over it. He discussed marking them down for participation... not because they did not participate, not because they didn't have good feedback, but because it bothered him that he "heard a child's voice". Kids forget lunch, ask 3 friends for a granola bar or go hungry, natural consequences. I neither awful nor mean. I am just stating facts about experiences that happen behind the scenes in a professor's office. I agree it's horrible, it sounds horrible, it's not made up. It's odd you are mad at me because I am showing what really goes on, but you're not mad that professors do these things. Go ahead, shoot the messenger. |
I think it's a combination of both, IMO. Kids today expect someone to fix any issues they have, many have not learned how to deal with any issues that don't go smoothly for them. However, yes many profs do make mistakes and are unwilling to own them. I can recall it happening several times when I was in college (at a T20 school, so largely smart motivated kids). My favorite: had a basic writing class that was required. I was taking it my 3rd year due to double majoring and not having space until then--so I was a junior and had written many papers by then, not the typical freshman in the course. So for this writing class I took the approach first draft all I did was write, run spell check and make sure it was properly formatted and I had answered the rubric completely. Then for next turned in draft I would actually edit it myself along with the comments the prof had provided. Next iteration, I'd do the same thing---prof provided comments after each draft. After the 2nd draft, literally every comment/suggestion to change marked in RED was a proposal to change my paper back to EXACTLY what I had written the first time. So I (being the sarcastic smart ass that I was/am) met with the professor and took in my original with his markups and my 2nd draft with markups and basically asked him "so which way do you actually want it? Because all the changes I made for 2nd draft were your suggestions, and now you want me to change it back to my original way based on the 2nd draft comments. So just let me know what it is you really want me to do and I will do it that way". Not sure the prof knew what to do---he was used to dealing with freshman in this course, and I was a seasoned junior who had written many, many 10-15 page more advanced papers already, so these 2-3 page papers were quite simple and easy for me. So comments are helpful if there is thought put into them, but comments to suggest changes just for the hell of it are not. |
Of course there are immature 17 year olds nobody is denying that, I agree kids probably need more help. Compared to 20 years ago. You had a map and a list of classes. If you looked lost a kind upperclassman would say “what building are you looking for” and a week later you were good to go. Now you have a computer with 5 new apps to learn in 2 weeks otherwise you miss your 1st assignment. I get it students are baffled and confused and need their hand held way more than 20 years ago. Also I think your point is a great one. Maybe it’s not that students are behind but it’s that they are often savvy, professors are not use to that. Hey here’s the transcript of your lecture, or here are the changes you made but here are your old comments. The biggest problem is that neither professors nor students are giving each other grace. I had to teach a surgeon how do use a computer mouse, (the double tap changed) a student saw me doing that and scoffed that the professor wasn’t that smart. Not everyone is great at everything. Give each other some grace. |
In an interesting coincidence, communications with professors came up among colleagues today. Because one received an email starting with 'Hey!'. Others piped in with their experiences - 'Hey First Name!', 'Yo!', 'Yo First Name', and so on. What was sad is that one said that when students would write like this, she would write a gentle response to essentially say that it's her job as an educator to make sure that her kids learned how to write in a professional manner, and then offer her corrections, but has stopped doing so due to antagonistic responses from previous students. I'm happy to say that I have never had students respond negatively to corrections of that sort, although a not insignificant percentage would ignore it. |
When you send emails to coworkers you use formal language? |
Depends on the coworker, how they’re addressed. Regardless of my relationship with them, the way I write to them professionally, is absolutely more formal than when I say, text them. Professors are not a peer group for students. |
| I literally can’t read these responses anymore. It is so maddening. I really hope the attitude filled, antagonistic poster doesn’t behave this way at work or in personal relationships. How can anyone bear to be around them??? |
Professors should explain how emails work in real life and not every email is a formal address. It's a waste of time. I just checked my emails from professors and 1/10 of them start with "Hey" or "Can you call me" or "Hello". Which are all fine for this type of communication. Email is transitory, quick form of communication. It's not a letter, they are having a conversation. If they are asking for something formal like a letter of recommendation sure it should be formal, but if it simply is asking a question about an assignment it's not formal. |
You can't handle being coddled and this whole thread is about people needing to be coddled. Ironic. |
Few people were ever interested in Tolstoy (I was one). But the kids who get into universities that will teach Tolstoy well are not interested in Tolstoy; and the kids who read Tolstoy in high school are not getting into those universities. |
It was a consensus opinion that your critique was mean and unhelpful . |
I really hope you are not an undergrad professor. This thread has been about way more than that. The opposite actually. Advice for parents to encourage their HS students to communicate in respectful ways with professors and TAs, be on time for classes and handing in assignments, communicate early in semesters about any areas they are struggling with and work on writing skills in advance. These measures are all pro active to help students get more out of their college journeys. Regarding mental health, What you call coddling is responding in realistic ways to mental health crisis among our youth now. The pandemic accelerated severe teen mental health challenges but they have been growing for a while. Teen mental health care facilities are overflowing and there is a shortage of teen psychiatrists and therapists. Mental health affects learning in major ways and it is great that colleges are trying to be realistic about providing supports. This is not coddling - thisbis dealing with reality. |
I think most people objected to your message style which was obnoxious . Your message was not designed to help parents learn how they could prepare their Hs students better but to attack a peer for expressing her or his experiences. Your message style needs a lot of work. You were not clear and masked your feedback in disdain rather than constructive good will. |
No, urnotrite. |