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I was a faculty brat and didn’t get a bump. I was admitted summer-jan as anyone with my application would have been.
I think a lot of you have fantasies that everyone has it better than you and is getting something you think you’re entitled to. You’re also focusing on schools that have single digit acceptance rates where thousands of kids with the same stats are denied all the time. No one is “taking your spot.” |
| On the other hand, people are getting a little tired of those with the advantages patting them on the head & saying “don’t worry about it—the advantage is way overrated.” |
| Right, the very benefits that suddenly nobody ever heard of, nobody ever received, and even if they do exist are grossly overrated . . . are also the ones that professors here are clinging to like Charlton Heston hanging onto a deer rifle. |
+1 Not to mention, everyone is arguing as if this is a big deal---it is not. Majority of universities, especially Elite/T25, require the students be admitted on their own merit. The only perk is the tuition reduction. That is why many offer the tuition payout for a long list of accredited universities---to provide the benefit no matter where the kid is going. Harvard/Stanford/Columbia/Northwestern/Duke are not taking a kid with a 1200 SAT/3.5UW just because their parent works there. And for faculty member's kids, those kids are likely smart and highly qualified because they grew up in a home that valued education and those kids always knew they were heading to college. So they are likely highly qualified admits |
+1000 That's what makes the entire "my kid was denied at an elite highly rejective U" theme so ridiculous. 90% of those rejected are likely "highly qualified". The reason your kid was denied is because majority are denied....you are in good company |
Stop focusing on elite, highly rejective Universities and find the right fit outside T25 schools. There are literally plenty of excellent schools, many that give good merit to top students. Someone will always "have it better than you" unless your last name is Bezos or Gates or Musk. But the notion that attending Harvard is going to give you some magical advantage is ridiculous. Use your smarts (apparently you are so smart) and get a great education and do something with it. That is what literally 99% of kids do---majority of successful people in life did not attend a T25 school, yet somehow are very successful. If you focus on the end goal--getting an education and doing something with it, you will achieve great things. If you focus on complaining that you didn't get into a T25 and "it's not fair" you might not go as far in life. |
Not only that, but the people here can get their panties in a twist over this issue, but there is no incentive for any university, let alone private ones, to change their policies on this. It's not like T25 schools are going to see a drop in application rates or lose any type of funding should they make zero changes. So, go ahead and shout from your soapboxes, but you're just shouting into the hurricane. |
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| Faculty here trying desperately to pull up the drawbridge & get the peasants away from the moat. But when they advise us to quit focusing on the top colleges & be satisfied with the fine opportunities at lesser schools, we might ask them if they would like to relinquish their advantages & join us at those lesser schools. |
Damn you sound paranoid - and inaccurate. |
Yeah, not really. Pretty much the only thing I’ve seen vigorously defended here is the tuition reduction. Sorry that doesn’t fit your narrative. |
+1 Exactly - and most schools don’t even have that. |
Ok then the faculty kids (along with the URM and legacies) can give up their admission bump because they’ll do fine attending a lesser school right? |
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“ Not to mention, everyone is arguing as if this is a big deal---it is not.”
Ok so it won’t be a big deal to give it up then. |
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