Would you suggest implants ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

I think that if a cosmetic surgeon, who stands to make money by performing this operation, tries to talk you out of it, you should listen to the surgeon. And beware of others, who may be less scrupulous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

I think that if a cosmetic surgeon, who stands to make money by performing this operation, tries to talk you out of it, you should listen to the surgeon. And beware of others, who may be less scrupulous.

He’s waitlisted doesn’t care about money: if I don’t bring him mine, others will do in big crowds. I guess he can afford being selective performing surgeries where he thinks it’s needed. Yes, I do listen to him thus still hasn’t done it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

Can you share some bathing suits that look good on women with small breasts?

Pp and sure. This is my go to, but I’m a different pattern. https://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=657734

I get so. many. compliments on this one. Don’t let the “bra cup” fool you. I’m almost completely flat and it still works for me. Athleta makes a lot of good ones. The sports illustrated mom wears speedo

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here.

No, don't do it.

With all due respect, what a guy thinks is irrelevant. A woman should make this decision for herself, based on what she wants.

Op asked for the opinion of guys so take it up with her

[Anonymous]

ugh no breast implants are soooo dated and tacky. Listen to the plastic surgeon its he's talking you out of if he's got a good reason and must be a good guy since he can be making money of you and he's not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this in the relationship forum?

Because op is nuts and is obsessed with transforming herself into some oerft woman that all guys want and to make her ex jealous.

She has made many, many threads.

Still won't get the psychological help she needs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is this in the relationship forum?

Because op is nuts and is obsessed with transforming herself into some oerft woman that all guys want and to make her ex jealous.

She has made many, many threads.

Still won't get the psychological help she needs

I am OP. Didn't create any threads on transforming myself or making my ex jealous. He lives in a different country WHF!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

Can you share some bathing suits that look good on women with small breasts?

Pp and sure. This is my go to, but I’m a different pattern. https://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=657734

I get so. many. compliments on this one. Don’t let the “bra cup” fool you. I’m almost completely flat and it still works for me. Athleta makes a lot of good ones. The sports illustrated mom wears speedo

Yes. The halter style top is very flattering and comfortable on a smaller chest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

My plastic surgeon tries to talk me out of it - he says something similar “ he doesn’t like to play with what looks good already”. It’s really my hang up mostly because I see all these women in the summer wearing crop tops with huge boobs. I had sex with 4 men in my life they didn’t say anything. Two were very attentive to that area in bed which makes me very excited. Other 2 were not (and the relationships didn’t last), and I think maybe they didn’t like me being small.

Yuck. Take it to the explicit forum, nobody wants to hear about your sex life.

The explicit forum is gone, I thought.

[Anonymous]

HELL no! Don't do it. Small boobs are classy and very "in".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

My plastic surgeon tries to talk me out of it - he says something similar “ he doesn’t like to play with what looks good already”. It’s really my hang up mostly because I see all these women in the summer wearing crop tops with huge boobs. I had sex with 4 men in my life they didn’t say anything. Two were very attentive to that area in bed which makes me very excited. Other 2 were not (and the relationships didn’t last), and I think maybe they didn’t like me being small.

You def shouldn't get implants then. When you do you lose all sensation in your breasts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:HELL no! Don't do it. Small boobs are classy and very "in".

"Small boobs are classy?" WTF?

[Anonymous]

OP get implants or don't but don't expect it to get your more dates. You describe yourself as close to the ideal female body type.

If you are getting first and second dates but not third the problem isn't with your body, your body is what gets you a first date and if it's good enough it gets you a second shot second date if the first one went poorly. If you aren't getting THIRD dates, the problem is with your personality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:HELL no! Don't do it. Small boobs are classy and very "in".

"Small boobs are classy?" WTF?

They are. Giant boobs and excessive cleavage are trashy. Facts are facts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Responding to questions above: I consider it for my own confidence. Recently divorced never really dated and ex spouse was not a big size fan. All his women were thin and athletic including the new GF who is total AA based on her photos

The issue is I am foreign born and so many women in the US have fake boobs! I can distinguish them in the summer wearing crop tops. I do get many second dates but few third dates. Not sure if that’s because of the boobs or me not being ready to date. The men I meet say I am very beautiful bit there is no continuation.

Plastic surgeon just honestly thinks I look great without big boobs and that I will appear “too heavy” with silicone. Also it opens Pandora box with future surgeries: one might end up higher than the other, they can contract and disfigure breast, harden etc. My mom’s boobs grew after she turned 50, and that would likely happen to me as well.

I have huge natural boobs, and I also rarely get a third date. That is because by that point it is obvious if you may not be compatible or looking for the same thing. Most dates don't lead to a relationship. THis is just how dating works these days.