Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Engaged. Hopefully he's maintaining his sobriety before bringing children into it.
Rumor was that she enabled his partying. He's looking pretty healthy these days though, so fingers crossed. But, yeah, I feel bad for his ex.
I truly do not understand why people feel bad for Jennifer Westfeldt. I think their breakup was her idea. They were together a long time. JW did not want kids and was focused on writing and directing (and still is). I do not get a sense that she pined away for a family with Hamm and will be devastated to discover he's starting a family with someone else.
I think people like to impose a specific paradigm on this relationship that doesn't apply. If JW had wanted to have kids with someone, I think she would have. Maybe even with Hamm. She didn't. They grew apart, the still seem to care about each other.
Stop trying to turn a happy and successful woman who seems to have always done exactly what she wanted into a victim just because her life doesn't look they way you want YOUR life to look. She's not you.