Anonymous wrote:I have a big eater too, we had to explain to her teacher in each successive classroom— yes, offer her everything we’ve sent at every meal. And each successive class gave me one day of pushback, then laughed with me for the rest of the session about how much my kid packs away. They leave a note when they have a sub that, really, this kid is going to eat all of that.
For people with children with smaller appetites— you know how your kid gets hangry and more prone to meltdowns? This is what will happen to OPs kid if she’s policed and upset and doesn’t get to eat her whole lunch. It’s in everyone’s interest to avoid that.
But the teacher didn't tell her she couldn't eat her whole lunch. She just asked her to eat it in a different order.
She didn’t ask— she told her she couldn’t eat in the way she wanted. I absolutely see the teachers point if she doesn’t understand the cookies aren’t junk food, but upsetting a hungry toddler and then her missing the bulk of her lunch isn’t good either. A brief chat with the teacher in which OP explains that anything in her daughter’s lunchbox is fair game should not mark her out as “that mother” to a teacher with experience.
We are going to far with what we consider toddlers. A 4 year old is not a toddler. They are a preschooler.
The DCUM age-policing is always very fun. It’s not relevant though because I wouldn’t want a teacher mistakenly policing my infant, toddler, preschooler, elementary, middle, high school or college age student. I think the teacher made an honest mistake that the cookies were a “snack” and the four year old is not able to correct her. The parent should do so, once, and that should be the end of the issue. The teachers I know are not such fragile creatures that they wouldn’t understand “hey this is not actually a snack it’s part of her lunch” without strain.
Parents shouldn't be such fragile creatures, either. The teacher told her precious snowflake to eat cookies last. GASP.
Seriously. Save your comments for when it really matters. And stop packing sugary treats in their lunches for goodness sake! Save it for after school snack or dinner. This could be a complete non issue if parents actually packed real food and not junk in their kids' lunches.
Something baked and shaped round is not “a sugary treat” unless a teacher doesn’t know the difference. Which it sounds like this one doesn’t. This isn’t about parental fragility, it’s about not letting a 4 y/o go without most of her lunch because a teacher didn’t understand what was in the lunchbox.
My goodness. So many parents who don't want to support and back up the teacher.
Take a step back. What should your DC be learning in preschool? How to follow another adult's rules.
I would call myself a parent who is responsible for my child getting their whole lunch, even if that means I need to explain to the teacher what is in that lunch. It’s not my job to “support and back up” a teacher who leaves a kid hungry for most of the day because she didn’t like the order in which she was eating her food.
Following rules is important. It is, however, not as important to a 4 y/o brain than getting enough food, which is basically the minimum standard of care.
Did she say "No cookies allowed"? No. She said, eat the cookies last. Which 99% of people across the globe would think is the normal way to eat a meal. Your DD could have eaten lunch in any order at all and been just as full.
She came home all cranky and upset because it was her first day of preschool. What's your excuse?
I’m the poster you’re responding to but I’m not the OP. The OP states that because her daughter was upset she didn’t get to eat her yoghurt, her fruit OR her cookies, and the teacher made her stop before she was finished. Rather than do the teacher equivalent of sending the kid to bed without supper oe being weirdly rigid about the order of food the child ate, she could have just let a hungry child eat her lunch.
This is not a nanny situation. It's a classroom filled with kids. You should volunteer some time in the classroom so you know what it's like. Kids might whine for snack but they have to wait until snack time even if they're hungry. It's really not cruel in any way. It's growing up and learning to participate in a group of other kids who all have to learn to do things as a group instead of as individuals.
They also have to sit still at certain times and be quiet so everyone can hear, go to the bathroom and wash their hands, stand in line to go out, use crayons when they want to use clay, etc. They have to learn how to do these things. It's not cruel at all. But if you have a nanny and prefer your child continue to get individual attention then keep them home another year.
Denying a child half her packed lunch because she ate it in an order that displeases you is absolutely cruel. Expecting a child to go hungry for hours because *you did not like the order she was eating her food in* even sounds absurd and rigid. She wasn’t asking the teacher for cookies or snacks, she wasn’t asking for special treatment, she was trying to eat the lunch her parents packed.
No one was denying her her food. So dramatic. You sound as rigid in your thinking and demands as the preschooler. You REALLY AND TRULY don't understand why an adult in charge of a small child would tell them to eat the cookie last?
You need to teach your kid to deal with other adults being in charge of her. You need to accept this fact, too.
Again, did you not read the OP? Half of the child’s packed lunch came home because the teacher would rather make a 4 y/o cry over baked oatmeal than let her peacefully eat the lunch her parents packed for her in the order she chose.
Happily, though, you’re wrong in your last point. If I ever had a teacher refuse to let my child eat the lunch I packed them I would not “accept” it, I would call the teacher and kindly let them know that my child was to be allowed to eat anything I packed for her. In the very unlikely situation that a teacher didn’t understand that guidence I would inform the school leadership/principal of those instructions. I have a child who is 97% for height and 18% for weight you can rest assured I care more about her not going hungry than I do about a teachers opinion of the order in which she eats her lunch.
So many overbearing blowhards on this thread. Yeah, you give that teacher a piece of your mind. You go act like she's your employee, not a professional. You go do that.
I don’t need to. Every teacher my child has has understood that having a child who eats a full, healthy lunch means everyone gets a happier afternoon and a better nap than a kid who wasn’t allowed to eat half of her food. It’s pretty much the lowest possible bar for being in charge of children, especially young children: feed them.
On Day 1, establish rules. Probably many of the kids weren't eating their lunch that day anyway. They'll figure it out - unless their mothers come in and snowplow the preschool teacher.
I’m sorry is this a preschool or a prison? On day one “establish rules” like “you only get to eat your food if I like the order you eat it in”? And really show off your power over four year olds by only letting them eat half their food? This is some dystopian preschool you’re envisioning.
I never realized one of the many things I have to be grateful to the teachers in my child’s life for is letting her eat her lunch, but I guess learn something new every day.
Or, you just didn't hear every moment of the day from your 4 year old. And your DC figured it out without your assistance.
Our school sends daily reports on what they eat— I’ve never gotten a “your child ate half her food and then I made her cry and didn’t give her time for the rest of it” and honestly I have more respect for her teachers than to think they’d ever treat any child that way. But sure maybe they’ve got nothing better to do in her class than police to make sure she eats the apple slices before the ricotta and they’re just keeping that under wraps, but somehow I doubt it.
School? Your SCHOOL sends home daily reports on what the eat? SCHOOL? Are you sure you don't mean daycare?
Yes my preschool sends home daily reports on food, classwork, language and potty. Only one of the preschools we visited didn’t do this.
LOL no. You mean daycare. Not school.
I mean the state board has accredited it as a preschool but I’m sure you know better.
Anonymous wrote:I have a big eater too, we had to explain to her teacher in each successive classroom— yes, offer her everything we’ve sent at every meal. And each successive class gave me one day of pushback, then laughed with me for the rest of the session about how much my kid packs away. They leave a note when they have a sub that, really, this kid is going to eat all of that.
For people with children with smaller appetites— you know how your kid gets hangry and more prone to meltdowns? This is what will happen to OPs kid if she’s policed and upset and doesn’t get to eat her whole lunch. It’s in everyone’s interest to avoid that.
But the teacher didn't tell her she couldn't eat her whole lunch. She just asked her to eat it in a different order.
She didn’t ask— she told her she couldn’t eat in the way she wanted. I absolutely see the teachers point if she doesn’t understand the cookies aren’t junk food, but upsetting a hungry toddler and then her missing the bulk of her lunch isn’t good either. A brief chat with the teacher in which OP explains that anything in her daughter’s lunchbox is fair game should not mark her out as “that mother” to a teacher with experience.
We are going to far with what we consider toddlers. A 4 year old is not a toddler. They are a preschooler.
The DCUM age-policing is always very fun. It’s not relevant though because I wouldn’t want a teacher mistakenly policing my infant, toddler, preschooler, elementary, middle, high school or college age student. I think the teacher made an honest mistake that the cookies were a “snack” and the four year old is not able to correct her. The parent should do so, once, and that should be the end of the issue. The teachers I know are not such fragile creatures that they wouldn’t understand “hey this is not actually a snack it’s part of her lunch” without strain.
Parents shouldn't be such fragile creatures, either. The teacher told her precious snowflake to eat cookies last. GASP.
Seriously. Save your comments for when it really matters. And stop packing sugary treats in their lunches for goodness sake! Save it for after school snack or dinner. This could be a complete non issue if parents actually packed real food and not junk in their kids' lunches.
Something baked and shaped round is not “a sugary treat” unless a teacher doesn’t know the difference. Which it sounds like this one doesn’t. This isn’t about parental fragility, it’s about not letting a 4 y/o go without most of her lunch because a teacher didn’t understand what was in the lunchbox.
My goodness. So many parents who don't want to support and back up the teacher.
Take a step back. What should your DC be learning in preschool? How to follow another adult's rules.
I would call myself a parent who is responsible for my child getting their whole lunch, even if that means I need to explain to the teacher what is in that lunch. It’s not my job to “support and back up” a teacher who leaves a kid hungry for most of the day because she didn’t like the order in which she was eating her food.
Following rules is important. It is, however, not as important to a 4 y/o brain than getting enough food, which is basically the minimum standard of care.
Did she say "No cookies allowed"? No. She said, eat the cookies last. Which 99% of people across the globe would think is the normal way to eat a meal. Your DD could have eaten lunch in any order at all and been just as full.
She came home all cranky and upset because it was her first day of preschool. What's your excuse?
I’m the poster you’re responding to but I’m not the OP. The OP states that because her daughter was upset she didn’t get to eat her yoghurt, her fruit OR her cookies, and the teacher made her stop before she was finished. Rather than do the teacher equivalent of sending the kid to bed without supper oe being weirdly rigid about the order of food the child ate, she could have just let a hungry child eat her lunch.
This is not a nanny situation. It's a classroom filled with kids. You should volunteer some time in the classroom so you know what it's like. Kids might whine for snack but they have to wait until snack time even if they're hungry. It's really not cruel in any way. It's growing up and learning to participate in a group of other kids who all have to learn to do things as a group instead of as individuals.
They also have to sit still at certain times and be quiet so everyone can hear, go to the bathroom and wash their hands, stand in line to go out, use crayons when they want to use clay, etc. They have to learn how to do these things. It's not cruel at all. But if you have a nanny and prefer your child continue to get individual attention then keep them home another year.
Denying a child half her packed lunch because she ate it in an order that displeases you is absolutely cruel. Expecting a child to go hungry for hours because *you did not like the order she was eating her food in* even sounds absurd and rigid. She wasn’t asking the teacher for cookies or snacks, she wasn’t asking for special treatment, she was trying to eat the lunch her parents packed.
No one was denying her her food. So dramatic. You sound as rigid in your thinking and demands as the preschooler. You REALLY AND TRULY don't understand why an adult in charge of a small child would tell them to eat the cookie last?
You need to teach your kid to deal with other adults being in charge of her. You need to accept this fact, too.
Again, did you not read the OP? Half of the child’s packed lunch came home because the teacher would rather make a 4 y/o cry over baked oatmeal than let her peacefully eat the lunch her parents packed for her in the order she chose.
Happily, though, you’re wrong in your last point. If I ever had a teacher refuse to let my child eat the lunch I packed them I would not “accept” it, I would call the teacher and kindly let them know that my child was to be allowed to eat anything I packed for her. In the very unlikely situation that a teacher didn’t understand that guidence I would inform the school leadership/principal of those instructions. I have a child who is 97% for height and 18% for weight you can rest assured I care more about her not going hungry than I do about a teachers opinion of the order in which she eats her lunch.
So many overbearing blowhards on this thread. Yeah, you give that teacher a piece of your mind. You go act like she's your employee, not a professional. You go do that.
I don’t need to. Every teacher my child has has understood that having a child who eats a full, healthy lunch means everyone gets a happier afternoon and a better nap than a kid who wasn’t allowed to eat half of her food. It’s pretty much the lowest possible bar for being in charge of children, especially young children: feed them.
On Day 1, establish rules. Probably many of the kids weren't eating their lunch that day anyway. They'll figure it out - unless their mothers come in and snowplow the preschool teacher.
I’m sorry is this a preschool or a prison? On day one “establish rules” like “you only get to eat your food if I like the order you eat it in”? And really show off your power over four year olds by only letting them eat half their food? This is some dystopian preschool you’re envisioning.
I never realized one of the many things I have to be grateful to the teachers in my child’s life for is letting her eat her lunch, but I guess learn something new every day.
Or, you just didn't hear every moment of the day from your 4 year old. And your DC figured it out without your assistance.
Our school sends daily reports on what they eat— I’ve never gotten a “your child ate half her food and then I made her cry and didn’t give her time for the rest of it” and honestly I have more respect for her teachers than to think they’d ever treat any child that way. But sure maybe they’ve got nothing better to do in her class than police to make sure she eats the apple slices before the ricotta and they’re just keeping that under wraps, but somehow I doubt it.
School? Your SCHOOL sends home daily reports on what the eat? SCHOOL? Are you sure you don't mean daycare?
Yes my preschool sends home daily reports on food, classwork, language and potty. Only one of the preschools we visited didn’t do this.
LOL no. You mean daycare. Not school.
I mean the state board has accredited it as a preschool but I’m sure you know better.
So your daycare center at your job moved your kid into the "preschool room" ?
Anonymous wrote:I have a big eater too, we had to explain to her teacher in each successive classroom— yes, offer her everything we’ve sent at every meal. And each successive class gave me one day of pushback, then laughed with me for the rest of the session about how much my kid packs away. They leave a note when they have a sub that, really, this kid is going to eat all of that.
For people with children with smaller appetites— you know how your kid gets hangry and more prone to meltdowns? This is what will happen to OPs kid if she’s policed and upset and doesn’t get to eat her whole lunch. It’s in everyone’s interest to avoid that.
But the teacher didn't tell her she couldn't eat her whole lunch. She just asked her to eat it in a different order.
She didn’t ask— she told her she couldn’t eat in the way she wanted. I absolutely see the teachers point if she doesn’t understand the cookies aren’t junk food, but upsetting a hungry toddler and then her missing the bulk of her lunch isn’t good either. A brief chat with the teacher in which OP explains that anything in her daughter’s lunchbox is fair game should not mark her out as “that mother” to a teacher with experience.
We are going to far with what we consider toddlers. A 4 year old is not a toddler. They are a preschooler.
The DCUM age-policing is always very fun. It’s not relevant though because I wouldn’t want a teacher mistakenly policing my infant, toddler, preschooler, elementary, middle, high school or college age student. I think the teacher made an honest mistake that the cookies were a “snack” and the four year old is not able to correct her. The parent should do so, once, and that should be the end of the issue. The teachers I know are not such fragile creatures that they wouldn’t understand “hey this is not actually a snack it’s part of her lunch” without strain.
Parents shouldn't be such fragile creatures, either. The teacher told her precious snowflake to eat cookies last. GASP.
Seriously. Save your comments for when it really matters. And stop packing sugary treats in their lunches for goodness sake! Save it for after school snack or dinner. This could be a complete non issue if parents actually packed real food and not junk in their kids' lunches.
Something baked and shaped round is not “a sugary treat” unless a teacher doesn’t know the difference. Which it sounds like this one doesn’t. This isn’t about parental fragility, it’s about not letting a 4 y/o go without most of her lunch because a teacher didn’t understand what was in the lunchbox.
My goodness. So many parents who don't want to support and back up the teacher.
Take a step back. What should your DC be learning in preschool? How to follow another adult's rules.
I would call myself a parent who is responsible for my child getting their whole lunch, even if that means I need to explain to the teacher what is in that lunch. It’s not my job to “support and back up” a teacher who leaves a kid hungry for most of the day because she didn’t like the order in which she was eating her food.
Following rules is important. It is, however, not as important to a 4 y/o brain than getting enough food, which is basically the minimum standard of care.
Did she say "No cookies allowed"? No. She said, eat the cookies last. Which 99% of people across the globe would think is the normal way to eat a meal. Your DD could have eaten lunch in any order at all and been just as full.
She came home all cranky and upset because it was her first day of preschool. What's your excuse?
I’m the poster you’re responding to but I’m not the OP. The OP states that because her daughter was upset she didn’t get to eat her yoghurt, her fruit OR her cookies, and the teacher made her stop before she was finished. Rather than do the teacher equivalent of sending the kid to bed without supper oe being weirdly rigid about the order of food the child ate, she could have just let a hungry child eat her lunch.
This is not a nanny situation. It's a classroom filled with kids. You should volunteer some time in the classroom so you know what it's like. Kids might whine for snack but they have to wait until snack time even if they're hungry. It's really not cruel in any way. It's growing up and learning to participate in a group of other kids who all have to learn to do things as a group instead of as individuals.
They also have to sit still at certain times and be quiet so everyone can hear, go to the bathroom and wash their hands, stand in line to go out, use crayons when they want to use clay, etc. They have to learn how to do these things. It's not cruel at all. But if you have a nanny and prefer your child continue to get individual attention then keep them home another year.
Denying a child half her packed lunch because she ate it in an order that displeases you is absolutely cruel. Expecting a child to go hungry for hours because *you did not like the order she was eating her food in* even sounds absurd and rigid. She wasn’t asking the teacher for cookies or snacks, she wasn’t asking for special treatment, she was trying to eat the lunch her parents packed.
No one was denying her her food. So dramatic. You sound as rigid in your thinking and demands as the preschooler. You REALLY AND TRULY don't understand why an adult in charge of a small child would tell them to eat the cookie last?
You need to teach your kid to deal with other adults being in charge of her. You need to accept this fact, too.
Again, did you not read the OP? Half of the child’s packed lunch came home because the teacher would rather make a 4 y/o cry over baked oatmeal than let her peacefully eat the lunch her parents packed for her in the order she chose.
Happily, though, you’re wrong in your last point. If I ever had a teacher refuse to let my child eat the lunch I packed them I would not “accept” it, I would call the teacher and kindly let them know that my child was to be allowed to eat anything I packed for her. In the very unlikely situation that a teacher didn’t understand that guidence I would inform the school leadership/principal of those instructions. I have a child who is 97% for height and 18% for weight you can rest assured I care more about her not going hungry than I do about a teachers opinion of the order in which she eats her lunch.
So many overbearing blowhards on this thread. Yeah, you give that teacher a piece of your mind. You go act like she's your employee, not a professional. You go do that.
I don’t need to. Every teacher my child has has understood that having a child who eats a full, healthy lunch means everyone gets a happier afternoon and a better nap than a kid who wasn’t allowed to eat half of her food. It’s pretty much the lowest possible bar for being in charge of children, especially young children: feed them.
On Day 1, establish rules. Probably many of the kids weren't eating their lunch that day anyway. They'll figure it out - unless their mothers come in and snowplow the preschool teacher.
I’m sorry is this a preschool or a prison? On day one “establish rules” like “you only get to eat your food if I like the order you eat it in”? And really show off your power over four year olds by only letting them eat half their food? This is some dystopian preschool you’re envisioning.
I never realized one of the many things I have to be grateful to the teachers in my child’s life for is letting her eat her lunch, but I guess learn something new every day.
Or, you just didn't hear every moment of the day from your 4 year old. And your DC figured it out without your assistance.
Our school sends daily reports on what they eat— I’ve never gotten a “your child ate half her food and then I made her cry and didn’t give her time for the rest of it” and honestly I have more respect for her teachers than to think they’d ever treat any child that way. But sure maybe they’ve got nothing better to do in her class than police to make sure she eats the apple slices before the ricotta and they’re just keeping that under wraps, but somehow I doubt it.
School? Your SCHOOL sends home daily reports on what the eat? SCHOOL? Are you sure you don't mean daycare?
Yes my preschool sends home daily reports on food, classwork, language and potty. Only one of the preschools we visited didn’t do this.
LOL no. You mean daycare. Not school.
I mean the state board has accredited it as a preschool but I’m sure you know better.
So your daycare center at your job moved your kid into the "preschool room" ?
No…? It’s an independent preschool, that has all preschool students. All but one school we visited did daily reports on the students, including the preschool program which was part of a larger private school. This is not an outlier in this area.
If you dd is 99% and a good eater, it's not unreasonable for a teacher to get her to eat the cookies last. Once your dd learns this, she will have a lot more time to eat her whole lunch.
Anonymous wrote:I’d tell the teacher I’m the parent and whatever I send in my child’s lunch my child Can eat in any order they want. If I hear about it again they’ll hear from my lawyer for denying lunch to my child.
In a strange turn of events apparently several other parents addressed it so the teacher sent an email to all the parents regarding classroom policy for eating.
Good for her. Best to nip the ridiculous, controlling parent behavior in the bud.
Anonymous wrote:I have a big eater too, we had to explain to her teacher in each successive classroom— yes, offer her everything we’ve sent at every meal. And each successive class gave me one day of pushback, then laughed with me for the rest of the session about how much my kid packs away. They leave a note when they have a sub that, really, this kid is going to eat all of that.
For people with children with smaller appetites— you know how your kid gets hangry and more prone to meltdowns? This is what will happen to OPs kid if she’s policed and upset and doesn’t get to eat her whole lunch. It’s in everyone’s interest to avoid that.
But the teacher didn't tell her she couldn't eat her whole lunch. She just asked her to eat it in a different order.
She didn’t ask— she told her she couldn’t eat in the way she wanted. I absolutely see the teachers point if she doesn’t understand the cookies aren’t junk food, but upsetting a hungry toddler and then her missing the bulk of her lunch isn’t good either. A brief chat with the teacher in which OP explains that anything in her daughter’s lunchbox is fair game should not mark her out as “that mother” to a teacher with experience.
We are going to far with what we consider toddlers. A 4 year old is not a toddler. They are a preschooler.
The DCUM age-policing is always very fun. It’s not relevant though because I wouldn’t want a teacher mistakenly policing my infant, toddler, preschooler, elementary, middle, high school or college age student. I think the teacher made an honest mistake that the cookies were a “snack” and the four year old is not able to correct her. The parent should do so, once, and that should be the end of the issue. The teachers I know are not such fragile creatures that they wouldn’t understand “hey this is not actually a snack it’s part of her lunch” without strain.
Parents shouldn't be such fragile creatures, either. The teacher told her precious snowflake to eat cookies last. GASP.
Seriously. Save your comments for when it really matters. And stop packing sugary treats in their lunches for goodness sake! Save it for after school snack or dinner. This could be a complete non issue if parents actually packed real food and not junk in their kids' lunches.
Something baked and shaped round is not “a sugary treat” unless a teacher doesn’t know the difference. Which it sounds like this one doesn’t. This isn’t about parental fragility, it’s about not letting a 4 y/o go without most of her lunch because a teacher didn’t understand what was in the lunchbox.
My goodness. So many parents who don't want to support and back up the teacher.
Take a step back. What should your DC be learning in preschool? How to follow another adult's rules.
I would call myself a parent who is responsible for my child getting their whole lunch, even if that means I need to explain to the teacher what is in that lunch. It’s not my job to “support and back up” a teacher who leaves a kid hungry for most of the day because she didn’t like the order in which she was eating her food.
Following rules is important. It is, however, not as important to a 4 y/o brain than getting enough food, which is basically the minimum standard of care.
Did she say "No cookies allowed"? No. She said, eat the cookies last. Which 99% of people across the globe would think is the normal way to eat a meal. Your DD could have eaten lunch in any order at all and been just as full.
She came home all cranky and upset because it was her first day of preschool. What's your excuse?
I’m the poster you’re responding to but I’m not the OP. The OP states that because her daughter was upset she didn’t get to eat her yoghurt, her fruit OR her cookies, and the teacher made her stop before she was finished. Rather than do the teacher equivalent of sending the kid to bed without supper oe being weirdly rigid about the order of food the child ate, she could have just let a hungry child eat her lunch.
she ate her fruit
seems like the daughter wasted a bunch of time crying bc she did not get her way
which means she's probably a big brat and is given whatever she wants at home
You have a really messed up or potentially outdated idea of how to feed kids. Being allowed to eat what you want from a selection of nutritious food your parents provide isn’t “getting your way” it is in fact how children are supposed to eat. Have you not read a single piece of literature on childhood nutrition in the past decade?
Yes, the current idea is that kids can choose to eat cookies for lunch and, because the listened to their bodies, they will grow up to be healthy and skinny. Mumble mumble.
No, the current idea is that children be offered a selection of nutritious food and be permitted to decide what and how much of it to eat. All the clean plates and uneaten dinner showing up as breakfast of the previous generation has gotten us where we are now as a society.
No one is talking about "clean plates." We are talking about a child (and an adult!) pitching a temper tantrum about the order she eats her food.
If you don't like the rules, don't use their services. Simple.
In a strange turn of events apparently several other parents addressed it so the teacher sent an email to all the parents regarding classroom policy for eating.
Good for her. Best to nip the ridiculous, controlling parent behavior in the bud.
It’s the teacher who is being ridiculous and controlling. I would contact the administration and explain how this policy goes against evidence based childhood nutrition guidance. Teacher is operating outside of her training and obviously is not familiar with best practices for childhood nutrition and feeding.
We get plenty of these types showing up to public K. The parents and the kids think they are in charge and they get really put out when they learn they are not. However we don’t supervise lunch that closely because we simply haven’t the staff - so OP can send only cookies if she likes!
In a strange turn of events apparently several other parents addressed it so the teacher sent an email to all the parents regarding classroom policy for eating.
Good for her. Best to nip the ridiculous, controlling parent behavior in the bud.
It’s the teacher who is being ridiculous and controlling. I would contact the administration and explain how this policy goes against evidence based childhood nutrition guidance. Teacher is operating outside of her training and obviously is not familiar with best practices for childhood nutrition and feeding.
Okay, now that is quite possibly the most DCUM post I’ve read on DCUM this week. And that’s really saying something.
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