
I think you are looking at this all wrong. You are assuming Einstein-level talent is buried in every child and just needs to be nurtured. If that was true, every child in the same class would all do the same level of work, which we all know is not true. I have a different interpretation for what you saw. The kids you saw paying attention were struggling, whereas the ones playing video games were bored silly because they knew the material already. You lose the higher-end kids who can't stand sitting listening to a teacher going over boring material at a slower pace. The higher-end's disengage and seek enrichment elsewhere. That's exactly what my kid did, so I had to supplement with tutoring. Not the type of tutoring MCPS is offering, mind you, but college-level advanced topic tutoring. I just tell my kid that school is a game you have to play by their rules. Just sit and not your head, but expect to work when you come home. It's fine since it's cheaper than private school and my kid can choose any topic under the sun. I think this is why MCPS is failing. All the AEI people who understood this basic fact left, and all the wack jobs are left in the positions now. |
MCCPTA G&T working group did a public records request. Response was delayed. As soon as info hit the listserve, someone leaked it here. |
Middle school in general, and magnet middle school particularly, are hadly nurturing environments. More sink or swim. |
Oh my goodness. Why were you looking at your magnet middle school age child’s zooms? Surely he did not need your hand-holding to log on. Also, not all black and brown kids are low income and I don’t know how on Earth you would have been able to tell who was in an apartment and what that even signified! Finally, why do you assume a student in a high farms school has less teacher attention? Title one schools have smaller class sizes and more funding than non title one schools, and extra paraeducators. That literally means more teacher attention. And finally, while goofing off is obviously not appropriate or ideal, I have a gifted kid with adhd who might have looked to you like he was goofing off, but who absolutely learned his lessons in full while bouncing about the room. You have no idea about any of these kids. |
Sadly, have to agree. - Signed Parent of UMC White kid |
Well you got yours, under the old pre-lottery system. You might feel differently if your kids hadn’t had their opportunity in the magnets. |
The flip side is that, since I have a pre-2018 kid and a post-2018 kid, I am old enough to remember the last time everyone screamed that the sky was falling and the magnets were effectively dead. Turns out the post-2018 kids did perfectly well, the magnets were not dead, and now all y'all are clamoring for a return to a system that you claimed was terrible just four years ago. |
Racist much? Many of the magnet parents we met are unpleasant and their kids say things that are similar to what the first PP posted according to what DC has told me. Sounds like your influence is rubbing off on your child. The broad stereotyping is really gross and it really says a lot about you that you were on your child's Zooms so often that you had time to judge these kids. |
Your claims are really problematic because they involve racial claims and because they are untrue. I'm sure it impacts how you treat certain students. I hope your administration is reading this. They know you post on this forum. |
Well if you agree that the magnets are not dead, you could perhaps understand why those of us are sour grapes that our gifted kids cannot access them with even the highest of scores because of the lottery. |
Ultimately, people are talking past each other on this issue. MCPS administration believes these differential cutoffs are necessary to do “equity.” Merit is at best irrelevant, and at worst a pernicious, racist concept that white people developed to hoard resources. The people who are saying that children who score about the 60th percentile in high FARMS school are showing an equal level of talent as those with much higher scores in low FARMS schools are not making an empirical statement that is susceptible to being proven either true or false. It’s an article of faith, and questioning that faith makes you a racist. It could be proven false to a metaphysical certainty, and their policies of inclusion would not change a whit. There is a real cultural struggle between those who believe that merit matters, and those who believe that resources need to be distributed proportionally among racial groups and any other approach is systemically racist. The DEI crowd is going to win, because people with other views generally remain silent for fear of being called racist and cast into the outer darkness. |
Tell me you have a daughter without telling me you have a daughter. |
Your very thoughtful response (which I agree with) does not fit into the narrative that is being pushed in this thread. Some posters to this thread (or maybe it is just one poster) are against any measures that increase access to magnet programs in an equitable way. 'Equity' is a bad word. Their belief is that a child's intelligence and ability to do more challenging work is solely measured through a test score--a test that some of them may have prepped their kids for. They will never acknowledge this however. I saw the same 'panic' when MCPS decided to test all 3rd graders for entrance to an enrichment program instead of relying on a request from parents. It's disgusting, really, and I hope MCPS continues to move forward with measures that can expand the number of children who can participate. |
PP here and I have both. However, if my son had half-a**ed his way through the magnet program, you should as heck would not find me on DCUM excusing his behavior by claiming he was just too bored by being in classes with kids that didn't share his advantages. |
Exactly, the pre lottery system seems like the best to me. The changes like universal screening and local norms seemed to produce a very strong cohort. |