Do you wear lingerie for DH?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Just regular lingerie, but I suppose the difference is you are w newlywed who wants to make a big production out of sex but we have been married 15 years so sex is something that I do to check the box and get back to what I want to do.

When we were dating I felt different

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Just regular lingerie, but I suppose the difference is you are w newlywed who wants to make a big production out of sex but we have been married 15 years so sex is something that I do to check the box and get back to what I want to do.

When we were dating I felt different

Why do you even have sex? If I was your spouse I’d stop; it sounds not entirely consensual.

[Anonymous]

Other than bras/panties, I’m large chested and it’s very very hard to find flattering lingerie that doesn’t cost a fortune. Ironically I found some at target and DH was so happy!

[Anonymous]

School girl outfit for DH's birthday. He just goes crazy when I put that on. I cannot imagine what anyone would think when they see the number of school girl outfits I have!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Just regular lingerie, but I suppose the difference is you are w newlywed who wants to make a big production out of sex but we have been married 15 years so sex is something that I do to check the box and get back to what I want to do.

When we were dating I felt different

This just sad

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Do whatever that poster put the pictures of look like a chore. Where the boobs are hanging out.

Those are literally the easiest things to put on and take off

It’s not just the ease of wear. It that one is so explicitly, sexually exposed. Just like some women are comfortable wear crop tops and bike shorts to Wegmans, others are more modest. I’d feel as silly in that lingerie as I would in a slutty nurse costume. I don’t like to be a Barbie doll on display, especially as a middle-aged mom with all the battle scars from childbirth. I think most husbands understand this about their reluctant wives.

And this doesn’t mean we don’t have sex. We do 3-4 times a week. Just skipping the costumes.

Don’t know where the Barbie Doll comment comes from. My DH is turned on by my “battle scars” nothing to be ashamed of.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Other than bras/panties, I’m large chested and it’s very very hard to find flattering lingerie that doesn’t cost a fortune. Ironically I found some at target and DH was so happy!

I’m a 34I… What size are you? I looked almost everywhere and nothing fits. Ugh…

[Anonymous]

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We are not your Barbie dolls, that you get to dress up for entertainment.

You should choose a life partner for something far deeper than whether she shops at Victoria’s Secret!

But enjoy the single life Peter Pan.

Wow. You sound like fun.

+1,000 - get the corncob out of your back door.

Pp you don't get to dictate what people should wear or do if it has no bearing on your life. And your response is very crude and unnecessary.
Thank you and you too should get the corn cob out of your back door.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Other than bras/panties, I’m large chested and it’s very very hard to find flattering lingerie that doesn’t cost a fortune. Ironically I found some at target and DH was so happy!

I’m a 34I… What size are you? I looked almost everywhere and nothing fits. Ugh…

I am 34e (I have major sagging/tennis ball in sock boobs at the age of 37)… they don’t have the ones I love anymore in target, they didn’t provide bra-quality lift but they were flattering enough to make my chest look sexy rather than matronly (which is how any top without a bra looks for me).

I bought and tried this one and it wasn’t fantastic but better than other lingerie for us busty ladies: https://www.target.com/p/women-39-s-push-up-babydoll-auden-8482-rose-s/-/A-82869974

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Other than bras/panties, I’m large chested and it’s very very hard to find flattering lingerie that doesn’t cost a fortune. Ironically I found some at target and DH was so happy!

I’m a 34I… What size are you? I looked almost everywhere and nothing fits. Ugh…

I am 34e (I have major sagging/tennis ball in sock boobs at the age of 37)… they don’t have the ones I love anymore in target, they didn’t provide bra-quality lift but they were flattering enough to make my chest look sexy rather than matronly (which is how any top without a bra looks for me).

I bought and tried this one and it wasn’t fantastic but better than other lingerie for us busty ladies: https://www.target.com/p/women-39-s-push-up-babydoll-auden-8482-rose-s/-/A-82869974

PS yes these are padded but you can take the padding out to make room for our stupid gigantic boobs

[Anonymous]

Most the women posting here that say I would never wear etc., have husbands that dream their wife would wear sexy lingerie. DH sits there and salivates like a dog because he never gets a steak and wishes he could. Stares at the Moms at the pool that keep in relatively decent shape, still sexy after having a child or two. If you ask DH about lingerie and he says “no”, I call BS. He’s too afraid to say yes he likes it. I expect a lot of negative responses. No worries. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

OMG, it's such a chore! When did you quite making the effort?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

I like being gifted lingerie or knowing that if I pick something new out that DH will enjoy seeing me in it. Nothing about it is a chore. And our sex life didn’t change when we got married, well it has gotten better.

[Anonymous]

I wish my DH would buy me lingerie. It would e nice to know he still finds me hot after a decade of marriage and kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish my DH would buy me lingerie. It would e nice to know he still finds me hot after a decade of marriage and kids.

… and yeah, my body has changed since our dating days, but so has his.