Do you wear lingerie for DH?

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Anonymous wrote:I had an old BF for whom kinky lingerie was a real turn on and I stupidly went with it and it’s one of my regrets. My husband has never expressed a similar interest as my being freshly showered and in a bathrobe seems to work wonders.

You have zero fetishes or kinks? Why were your stupid for going along with it?

My husband has a good analogy for lingerie. Does a frame take a way from a beautiful work of art? Does it make the art it self any less impressive or beautiful?

My husband has another point of view. Lingerie hits the floor so fast anyway, what’s the point.

I don’t understand the idea that lingerie is just for the bedroom.

I don’t understand wanting to wear underwear and bras that are very expensive, mostly uncomfortable, and under my clothes. Wearing frilly underwear doesn’t make me feel any different.

Buy stuff you like that fits, it will be comfortable, and good lingerie doesn’t have to be frilly. The good stuff is typical expensive. It is the foundation of my outfit. Them being under my clothes makes it my little secret, I get to choose who sees it, though that is only DH. It can be like a day long tease to him, that is fun.

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Anonymous wrote:I had an old BF for whom kinky lingerie was a real turn on and I stupidly went with it and it’s one of my regrets. My husband has never expressed a similar interest as my being freshly showered and in a bathrobe seems to work wonders.

You have zero fetishes or kinks? Why were your stupid for going along with it?

My husband has a good analogy for lingerie. Does a frame take a way from a beautiful work of art? Does it make the art it self any less impressive or beautiful?

My husband has another point of view. Lingerie hits the floor so fast anyway, what’s the point.

Are you newly married?

This was my husband’s POV when we first married, but after a decade or so, we both needed a little more to make it exciting.

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Anonymous wrote:I had an old BF for whom kinky lingerie was a real turn on and I stupidly went with it and it’s one of my regrets. My husband has never expressed a similar interest as my being freshly showered and in a bathrobe seems to work wonders.

You have zero fetishes or kinks? Why were your stupid for going along with it?

My husband has a good analogy for lingerie. Does a frame take a way from a beautiful work of art? Does it make the art it self any less impressive or beautiful?

My husband has another point of view. Lingerie hits the floor so fast anyway, what’s the point.

Are you newly married?

This was my husband’s POV when we first married, but after a decade or so, we both needed a little more to make it exciting.

DP. We’ve been married for a long time, and that’s still my husband’s opinion. I like lingerie sometimes but mostly he just wants it off as quickly as possible.

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Anonymous wrote:I had an old BF for whom kinky lingerie was a real turn on and I stupidly went with it and it’s one of my regrets. My husband has never expressed a similar interest as my being freshly showered and in a bathrobe seems to work wonders.

You have zero fetishes or kinks? Why were your stupid for going along with it?

My husband has a good analogy for lingerie. Does a frame take a way from a beautiful work of art? Does it make the art it self any less impressive or beautiful?

My husband has another point of view. Lingerie hits the floor so fast anyway, what’s the point.

I don’t understand the idea that lingerie is just for the bedroom.

I don’t understand wanting to wear underwear and bras that are very expensive, mostly uncomfortable, and under my clothes. Wearing frilly underwear doesn’t make me feel any different.

Buy stuff you like that fits, it will be comfortable, and good lingerie doesn’t have to be frilly. The good stuff is typical expensive. It is the foundation of my outfit. Them being under my clothes makes it my little secret, I get to choose who sees it, though that is only DH. It can be like a day long tease to him, that is fun.

I think I love you.

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Anonymous wrote:I had an old BF for whom kinky lingerie was a real turn on and I stupidly went with it and it’s one of my regrets. My husband has never expressed a similar interest as my being freshly showered and in a bathrobe seems to work wonders.

You have zero fetishes or kinks? Why were your stupid for going along with it?

My husband has a good analogy for lingerie. Does a frame take a way from a beautiful work of art? Does it make the art it self any less impressive or beautiful?

My husband has another point of view. Lingerie hits the floor so fast anyway, what’s the point.

I don’t understand the idea that lingerie is just for the bedroom.

I don’t understand wanting to wear underwear and bras that are very expensive, mostly uncomfortable, and under my clothes. Wearing frilly underwear doesn’t make me feel any different.

Buy stuff you like that fits, it will be comfortable, and good lingerie doesn’t have to be frilly. The good stuff is typical expensive. It is the foundation of my outfit. Them being under my clothes makes it my little secret, I get to choose who sees it, though that is only DH. It can be like a day long tease to him, that is fun.

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[Anonymous]

been dating for a long time and my GF definitely tries out all the new lingerie from VS and SavageX. It looks good on her and I like her walking around in that too.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. I’m surprised by these responses, and I think some if these women should give it a try.

I’ve always liked wearing it, but I like it more as I age and don’t look quite as good naked. A garter belt and stockings cover up my stretch marks and c-section shelf, and a quarter cup bra holds my sagging boobs in place. A short satin nightie covers all of it completely. I know a few women who stopped feeling comfortable naked after having children and always wear some kind of lingerie to bed.

Really? Are there people who don't get naked for the naughty? Dropping the clothes is all part of foreplay. I cannot imagine doing it clothed or even partially clothed. I love to kiss every part of her body and she mine. GF is 52. I'm 56. She loves how I compliment her b/c she says it makes her feel sexy. And I do love how she looks naked, even thought in comparison to a 20 year old or even an in shape 30 year old, she is not a spring chicken, but neither am I. We're both reasonably healthy and in shape middle aged adults who like to make love to each other.