Would you tell your husband?

[Anonymous]

I travel quite often for business and it requires a fair amount of customer entertaining with both men and women. While I am very good at keeping the conversation focused on business a number times I’ve been hit on by men and by one woman. I quickly decline and move on. I don’t tell my husband about what happened because no one ever got handsy or aggressive. Would you tell your husband?

[Anonymous]

Why go out of your way to tell him?

[Anonymous]

It's never really occured to me to tell him when I get hit on. There doesn't seem to be a point. Would I want to make him jealous? No. Would I want to make him appreciate that I'm still attractive? He already does.

I've told him some funny stories around being hit on, but never just to tell him I've been hit on.

[Anonymous]

Nope.
I work in a very incestuous type work environment. Ive never cheated on spouse but I am very close to a couple of the guys I work with as far as banter/inappropriate conversations. Im not going to tell my spouse and give her things to worry about that aren't there.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because we talk about everything literally everything together.

[Anonymous]

I had a co-worker who used to send me weird and unwelcome flirty emails and texts. I showed them to DH because I knew it would be awkward if he ever came across them and didn't understand the context.

[Anonymous]

Definitely tell him about the woman!

[Anonymous]

no

[Anonymous]

Most of the time yes. I tell my DH. Like we gossip about our friendS, our work, our colleagues. I gossip about people who hit on me with my DH and we laughed about it too.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely tell. My husband is the kind of guy who points it out when he sees other men checking me out, and he would think it was kind of sexy/cool that other men were hitting on me. He likes that other men want to be with me, but he’s got me.

[Anonymous]

I probably would in the same sense I would talk about the airport lounge or the colleague who is taking maternity leave or whatever. If it’s part of my experience, I talk about it.

What are you worried about, OP?

[Anonymous]

Why not share?

[Anonymous]

I tell my husband when I get hit on because I think he actually enjoys hearing it -- like he feels some residual compliment by association or something. And he trusts me and knows I would never do anything shady.

[Anonymous]

no

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would definitely tell. My husband is the kind of guy who points it out when he sees other men checking me out, and he would think it was kind of sexy/cool that other men were hitting on me. He likes that other men want to be with me, but he’s got me.

Eww. I wouldn't tell my husband because it would serve no purpose. I'm not going to cheat and he knows that.