NYTs: Older Women Are in Demand by Younger Men
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Anonymous
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Oooooh, the comments on this are good especially on social media. The middle-aged men are sheepishly quiet.
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/16/opinion/younger-men-dating-older-women.html My view? Both parties want low drama. The woman in her mid 40s already has a house, kids, her own money - she doesn't want a guy with baggage. The younger guy in his early 30s is avoiding the pressure put on by his peers to have babies, buy the house, go for the brass ring. Everyone is avoidant. |
Anonymous
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I believe you are onto something here, OP.
As a man, if I were still in my early 30s (rather than my mid-50s), I would love to try a relationship like the one in your post. Many, many women remain attractive in their mid-40s, and this demographic would not surprise you with an unplanned pregnancy or relationship drama (e.g., where is our relationship going, my parents keep asking if we are going to get married, I want to have kids while I am young enough to do so). You both could easily start having fun and leave it without any hard feelings. |
Anonymous
| Nope. |
Anonymous
| I'm married, but it makes me feel good to read this. |
Anonymous
| LOL, why not, as long as the money is right, Sugar Mama. |
Anonymous
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These trend articles are fun to read, but are almost never reflective of the real world outside of a few dozen people in New York.
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Anonymous
| Makes sense. There's a glut of aging millennial mids. |
Anonymous
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I'm an older woman who sort of fell into dating younger men.
A lot of it is that older men on dating apps don't pursue, while younger men do. Younger men will actually read my profile, comment on it, ask engaging questions, and ask me on a date fairly quickly. Meanwhile I have a 47 year old man on Tinder who has been messaging me about things like his new bike for the last 2 weeks and has yet to ask me on a date. I'm not interested in a pen pal, so if a guy doesn't set a date within a week or two, I unmatch. That filters out a lot of older men. Out of every 5 men who ask me out, I'd say 4 of them are under 35. I think it's also great that these younger men who don't want marriage/kids have an option that isn't wasting a younger woman's time and fertility. The worst thing is for them to date a woman their own age, waste years of her life, and then break up. Also, younger men are usually more sex-positive and enjoying giving. I have to ask older men to give oral; younger men actually *want* to. |
Anonymous
| Makes sense, like who wants women in their 20s and 30s? |
Anonymous
Are we just going end up with an abundance of age gap relationships in Gen Z? The women are going to eventually pair off with someone if they want to have kids. |
Anonymous
What…..?? |
Anonymous
The economic state of the world is so bad that the young men are getting Sugar Mamas. Sad state of affairs. |
Anonymous
| Basically, older women are easy and want sex. Younger men are easy and want sex. Both have few demands about the nature of the relationship. Neither want anything more. So, pretty simple. |
Anonymous
Yeah, Mom bod is better. |
Anonymous
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I am in my 40s and still get mistaken by people in their 20s for being their age.
If I were single, I would probably go younger. I feel younger men are more open-minded overall and I am more attracted to them. |