DH decided to lose weight and had become insufferable

[Anonymous]

DH decided to lose weight. That’s fine but he’s become insufferable. I was yelled at today for order pizza for Friday. Nobody made him eat it. I was called a piglet in target for looking at Easter candy. I was just looking mind you. We don’t even celebrate Easter. 3 days ago while shopping I picked up a small salad because I was still hungry and screamed at in the store because “you can still get that from lettuce if you eat enough”. He’s become annoying and has plans for plastic surgery. I told him to leave but he said he won’t.

[Anonymous]

Calling you piglet is unacceptable period. What a jerk. I do remember getting edgy and irritable on a diet but never called people names.

[Anonymous]

The name calling is ridiculous.
Deal with the new vs of your husband or
Plan your exit

[Anonymous]

He’s probably cheating or has his eye on a potential side piece. Contempt for a partner is a symptom.

[Anonymous]

Could your husband be carrying on an affair??

Because it appears he is hyper-focused on his looks too much.
Plastic surgery??!

Or another explanation could be he is having a midlife crisis.

[Anonymous]

Sounds to me like hunger is making him irritable. And you are not supporting him in his effort to be more healthy.

[Anonymous]

If he won't leave, you can.

[Anonymous]

Gets your attorney and finances lined up.

[Anonymous]

You don’t bring a pizza in the house of a starving person.

He’s psycho unless his doctor told him it was life or death to lose weight.

[Anonymous]

Ordering pizza to the house when he’s trying to lose weight is completely obnoxious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ordering pizza to the house when he’s trying to lose weight is completely obnoxious.

What? No it's not. I've maintained a 50 lb weight loss for years and never cared when spouse brought junk into the house. Half the battle of successful weight loss is learning to deal with temptations around you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH decided to lose weight. That’s fine but he’s become insufferable. I was yelled at today for order pizza for Friday. Nobody made him eat it. I was called a piglet in target for looking at Easter candy. I was just looking mind you. We don’t even celebrate Easter. 3 days ago while shopping I picked up a small salad because I was still hungry and screamed at in the store because “you can still get that from lettuce if you eat enough”. He’s become annoying and has plans for plastic surgery. I told him to leave but he said he won’t.

We assume he’s doing this because the the $500/month injectibles? And has/had a BMI >30 and never learned to stop eating fast, or the right portion size, or to eat less? Plus rarely worked out or even took walks?

Yes those types become insufferable with the GLP injectibles. They think they’re invincible gods. No muscle tone still but he will likely rapidly go through the stages of an egotistical male mid life crises.

Protect the kids and yourself. He’s a goner.

[Anonymous]

Is he planning the meals? If he is planning and helping with shopping and prep then he has a point about undermining him with pizza (although you both should look at whether the family meals are enough). If he's not helping with meals, he doesn't get to complain about pizza.

And is the family budget going to pay for his plastic surgery?

Will he see a counselor with you? If not, you may need to start the divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t bring a pizza in the house of a starving person.

He’s psycho unless his doctor told him it was life or death to lose weight.

Op needs to continue to eat right for herself. Not do wtf he thinks he’s doing with his eating.

[Anonymous]

The way he is talking to you is not right OP. You don't deserve that.