Dating game changer: only date men who chase you
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Anonymous
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I’ve recently started dating after divorce and I only am engaging with men who demonstrate clear and eager interest in me. They call when they say they will, they schedule dates, they are respectful and let me lead the pace.
Why did I waste so much time chasing men who weren’t truly into me? Ugh! |
Anonymous
| Hmm okay I guess desperate men are going even after leftovers. OP you are not a catch. Keep that in mind. You are in the post divorce honey moon phase lol. |
Anonymous
Duh…. |
Anonymous
NP. Well, hello there, loser. Spoken like a bitter woman seeking to demoralize the competition or a bottom-shelf loser angry at the dwindling population of women stupid enough to tolerate his games. |
Anonymous
Yes, girl. Chasing men is how you end up with a narcissistic little princess who sees you as his servant. You still need to be very careful because there is a particular species of loser who lives for the chase. These types will do anything and everything for you until they believe they have you locked down. Then they will lose respect for you and mistreat you because whomever they don't have is always better to them than whom they do have. |
Anonymous
| How old are you OP? If someone is calling you back and staying engaged in communication then it does show their interest and efforts to get to know you more and enjoy your company. That should always be the rule. |
Anonymous
I’m 39 |
Anonymous
| I truly do not understand how this is a revelation to you, OP. |
Anonymous
| I am not prey. I don't need someone chasing me. I don't play games. Clearly you haven't learned much from a failed marriage given you are starting out in a very unhealthy way. |
Anonymous
| How do you chase a man op |
Anonymous
No one should chase anyone. Chasing means you run away, play hard to get, try to make them chase you and catch you. You play lots of head games and act like a 15 year old. |
Anonymous
| For the majority of women, this approach is best. |
Anonymous
I think with a man they will let you know up front. They're not interested when you try to chase them. So any hesitance you get from a man when you show interest but what he means that he's not into you and you shouldn't try. But if a man does the chasing then the woman could be convinced. But if it's the other way around and it starts with a woman chasing most likely the man will use then dispose. |
Anonymous
If you want a bad boyfriend who doesn't care about consent so when you try and get away, he comes after you because it is oh so fun to be chased. TO have someone who won't respect you and comes after you no matter what. Then you will be on here complaining about oh he turned out to be a stalker. So surprising. |
Anonymous
| This is like Dating 101. The fact that it took you a divorce to learn this is probably why you're divorced. |