Would you date a man who has no friends but willing to make new friends

[Anonymous]

Would you date a man who has no friends but willing to make new friends?

[Anonymous]

Yes. My husband didn't have any friends. He had zero friends. But when he is totally normal and social around people. He just enjoys being by himself a lot. But when are together we are inseparable. We have 3 kids married 20 years.

[Anonymous]

No. Huge red flag.

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

Would depend on the reason.

[Anonymous]

No. I prefer being by myself, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have any friends. I’d like to know that he knows how to kee up long term relationships ships with people.

[Anonymous]

Actions speak way louder than words. He can say all he wants but it sounds like he's willing to make new friends for you, which is a red flag. Also, why doesn't he have any friends?

[Anonymous]

Why doesn’t he have friends and age?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you date a man who has no friends but willing to make new friends?

Yes, I’m dating him, not his friends. Who cares after about his friends?

[Anonymous]

No. My ex introduced me to all his "friends" which really was a ruse to show me that he had friends. He had none. Found out too late. Huge red flag.

[Anonymous]

Nope. To me that's a values difference. I really value people and relationships, and have many friends from different times in my life. I think socializing is important and adds a lot of meaning to life.

(and I'm an introvert fwiw)

[Anonymous]

This is a red flag.

It has nothing to do with introversion or this or that. You are setting yourself up for a man who doesn’t have buddies to hang out with, chat with, etc. You will become his everything. Hell no.

[Anonymous]

Huge red flag.

Normal people have ties. We introverts have a smaller number of friends, and may not hang out with them all that often, but we have them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. My ex introduced me to all his "friends" which really was a ruse to show me that he had friends. He had none. Found out too late. Huge red flag.

I don't get it. Who did he introduce you to?

[Anonymous]

I don't think this affects whether he will be a good husband. However it does affect your compatibility. My dad and uncle never had friends and they were great husbands.
My husband had friends when we got together but they grew apart (unmarried, still into the bar scene.) He will act friendly to whoever but never gets deeper.