Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater

[Anonymous]

I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

I'm sorry but why do you care? If your daughter likes it that's the important thing. Have you tested it to see if it will actually show anything if she bends down? If not it should be fine. How old is she, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

Return it. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Have her wear a tank or cami under it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have her wear a tank or cami under it

This is fair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

Return it. End of story.

Yeah, strict parents raise sneaky kids. I'm glad my kids trust me and tell me everything. My daughters friend has strict parents who won't let her wear anything that doesn't cover her stomach or shoulders and now here she is sneaking around her parents hanging out with boys and secretly wearing very very cropped shirts that she changes into at school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have her wear a tank or cami under it

This is fair.

+1 I think its a good compromise

[Anonymous]

I hate the huge arm holes in teen clothes and my own clothes. Camisoles or undergarments will prevent anything showing

[Anonymous]

Leave her be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leave her be.

clocked queen

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate the huge arm holes in teen clothes and my own clothes. Camisoles or undergarments will prevent anything showing

ok well that's your opinion, you don't have to push that onto your daughter. Let her be her own person with her own taste.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

Return it. End of story.

Yeah, strict parents raise sneaky kids. I'm glad my kids trust me and tell me everything. My daughters friend has strict parents who won't let her wear anything that doesn't cover her stomach or shoulders and now here she is sneaking around her parents hanging out with boys and secretly wearing very very cropped shirts that she changes into at school.

Lol. Ok, sure. They tell you everything.

[Anonymous]

My daughter has some shirts that go way off her shoulders and yes, you can see everything if she moves. You can ok all of the girls. Mine wears a cami or tank underneath. I’ve seen others wear sports bras. Don’t return it if she loves it. Come up with a solution.

[Anonymous]

Shop some other brands - there are some that run quite a bit smaller

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Shop some other brands - there are some that run quite a bit smaller

This. Find an alternative so she's willing to return the one that looks bad.