Does separated actually mean "separated"?
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Anonymous
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In a relationship for about a year, person is great but some things are raising flags. Says divorce is imminent but there seems to be no movement. Will not spend the night. Never seen their place. Schedule only allows them to be available for short windows of time, usually on a weekend but sometimes on weekdays and never more than once a week or every 10 days. Won't make plans more than a few days in advance.
I'm a fool right. They aren't really separated are they? |
Anonymous
| After a year in a relationship, you should be able to say these things to him. Tell him your thoughts and that you want to spend the night at his place. There should be no reason that you can’t except if he doesn’t have his own place. |
Anonymous
| I have and the question is avoided always. |
Anonymous
| Not even at your house or apartment? |
Anonymous
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I won’t call you a fool OP because that is not very kind but if you feel strongly that something is maybe “off” in your relationship then it probably is.
Go w/your gut on this one. |
Anonymous
How is this possible and you still think a divorce is even in the works? |
Anonymous
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A year and you’ve never seen their place?!
They’re either married or extremely poor and live in a dump. |
Anonymous
| They own a house with their spouse. |
Anonymous
No. |
Anonymous
| I have know someone that was in similar relationship. Guy even introduced his two year old son as his nephew. Was married the entire time, they were together (roughly 2 years). Even talking about divorce. The only way she found out is coincidently his cousin got a job where she works and saw a picture of him on her desk at work. |
Anonymous
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I'm so sorry for you.
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Anonymous
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He is full of shit.
I'm sorry. |
Anonymous
| It sounds like this guy is married, not separated and not divorcing. |
Anonymous
| Oh sweetie, he is married and you are his affair partner. |
Anonymous
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Does this guy take your phone call if you call between 6 and 9 on weeknights? Will he talk with you for 30 minutes or an hour?
Will he take your phone call on weekends? Have you every tried to call him? Or does he insist on texting? Did you verify his name and work place before started dating him? i.e. Does someone with his name work at the place that he says he works? |