I am a single mom, and I have been seeing casually a hot fireman who is younger than me since January. We see each other every couple of weeks and sometimes weekly. My daughter is home from university for the summer, which means it has not been as often. Well, yesterday I thought my daughter was at work, but she came home early from her shift. She walked in on me and the fireman… Has anyone experienced this awkward situation? How did you handle it? I apologized and said I am sorry for the awkward situation. I gave her space yesterday, but we talked more about it today. I have not been with her father for 10 years now, and I never bring men over. I am finally living a little, which means she is not used to me dating. |
She’s an adult, she should have her own place. |
Two rules in our house
1. Always knock when a door is closed 2. Lock the door when doing private things Adopt the same for your house. Nothing you can do now. You apologized and she is old enough to understand sex. Move on. |
I don't understand the apology part. What are you apologizing for to your daughter? |
Can you describe this situation in a bit more detail? Were you in the living room? Bedroom? Kitchen? Lay it all out for us. |
OP here. We were in my bedroom with the door closed. My bed was making a lot of noise. My daughter thought it was construction noise haha To the PP who thinks this is fake. It’s not, and I appreciate the feedback on how to move forward. |
Why werent you in your own room? |
Ew she needs to learn to knock!! |
Please describe the sexy, younger fireman (a very necessary detail, btw) in more detail. Just how sexy are we talking? How mind blowing was the sex? Details, please! |
On the off-chance you are not trolling, if she’s college age this is a non-issue. No need to discuss or worry further. |
OP again. When I met him online over a year ago, I joked that he must be in our city’s firefighter calendar as a joke. I was definitely not getting together with him back then. Turns out he is in the firefighter calendar. I then showed up at the local community centre to purchase one. They do the calendar to raise money for community organizations. I felt like I was buying a Playgirl! Sex is amazing. I won’t lie but it’s the best I have had. Maybe it’s because he is a first responder, is strong and fit, and knows the body. |
Right. I thought op was talking about an actual child and not an adult who is very likely having sex herself. She'll remember to knock. |
I am definitely not trolling. I think it was just a shock to her that I might have a sexual life. She called me disgusting when we first discussed it. |
I think you spoiled be more concerned about your young daughter stealing the hottie firefighter from you. |
Playgirl magazine, fireman calendar, "maybe because he is a first responders and knows the body." Give me a break. ![]() |