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48, white, business owner, ~4M income last year, Mclean, "connected"...
Proceeds to have three or four more drinks at whatever event we are at. I met him OLD and I'm not really a drinker. I'll have 6 months where I have zero drinks and then 2 months where I have maybe 10 drinks a month. I like him but this worrys me |
| It wouldn't be a match for me. I am not interested in men who drink heavily, and to me, that is. |
| I would avoid this. Im not interested in a functional alcoholic even if they are rich. |
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Yeah this will get old quick.
How long have you been dating that you know income? |
| This happens often? No bueno. |
| More important: Why is he single and on OLD at the age of 48? |
| This is a problem. I’d move on. |
| The fact that you describe him like this means you aren’t worth his time. You’re gross. |
| Most men like him are bright lights burning fasts. I feel like they are all fast reving (ADDHD) and self medicating to try to slow the motor. It's a different type of drunk. It's not sloppy addiction. |
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You could marry him, serve him lots of drinks, and be a rich widow. Or you know... step away. |
| Wow 4 mil and he can't find a woman in real.lige and has to go on OLD. Is he at least divorced? And/or does he have kids? Being that wealthy at that age and never married no kids is a big red flag to me. I am not a woman, but as woman a man who is 48 has no kids never been married would give me pause. |
No one wants a partner who’s three sheets to the wind before even leaving the house. |
So the pope would give you pause? |
I don't know if I'd call some beers three sheets to the wind. |
DH here: no, but seven drinks is a lot on a regular basis. Even a relatively large guy is pretty impaired by that point. |