I have one on a coworker. His personality is unlike anything I’ve seen. He is so kind, warm and nice.
I am serious and not a troll. It is bothering me so much at this point. I just don’t want to care |
Change jobs. |
The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!
And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all. |
Are you female? |
Yes |
Thank you for this I am single though is that worse? |
This is good advice. |
Is he single? |
Yes |
Feelings will not lessen doing the above.
Do not think about person. Do not fantasize. Do not spend more time than absolutely necessary. This stuff can go on for years wasting your real life. |
Think about him doing gross stuff, like trimming his toenails and picking his nose. |
So then what's the problem? Why would you not date? |
Is it really that simple though? I dont want to admit this /op |
Or voting for trump |
Troll
You’re both single but you didn’t say that up front; you made it sound like some wildly inappropriate crush. |