How to get rid of crush? (Serious)

[Anonymous]

Seriously, what are you waiting for, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.

Yes, then someone better will replace him.
It's just fun and makes work seem less like work.

Soon you'll be occupied with other things. Everything gets old eventually and the excitement wears off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.

Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?

I guess where's the problem here? If he's not married, go for it.

+100. Absent any other details, I see no issues with a single crushing on another single at work. Tale as old as time. What's the problem?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.

Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?

I guess where's the problem here? If he's not married, go for it.

+100. Absent any other details, I see no issues with a single crushing on another single at work. Tale as old as time. What's the problem?!

Yeah, just do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.

I guess

Or just fantasize about Luigi Mangione more. Be his lawyer, meet him in Thailand, have hime move to DC. All more likely than what actually happened.

Lol. Be a Fan Gurl of someone else!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.

I guess

Or just fantasize about Luigi Mangione more. Be his lawyer, meet him in Thailand, have hime move to DC. All more likely than what actually happened.

Will do

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have one on a coworker. His personality is unlike anything I’ve seen. He is so kind, warm and nice.

I am serious and not a troll. It is bothering me so much at this point. I just don’t want to care

Any update OP? Are you both still single or did you finally go on some dates?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you female?

Yes

Imagine him pooping very hard poops. And then slicing and dicing his poop with plastic cutlery that he keeps in the bathroom to prevent clogging.