kids birthday party-They never cut/served the cake.

Anonymous
It was weird. Kid blew out the candles and then that was that.

This was a 4 year old birthday party with about 10 kids and at least one adult per kid but most had both parents with them and some had siblings as well.

It was like-he blew out the candles and they just moved on. Is this some new thing? This is my third kid and i’ve never experienced this weirdness.

I’m not friends with the birthday kids parents or I would have just asked.
Anonymous
I have friends who did this. They’re really weird about dye and sugar but want to have the party look right, so the cake is whisked away right after singing. My secret theory is that the parents binged on it later.

This is something you’ll see up through kindergarten, but by 1st grade most parents have chilled out and are more realistic about their ability to control kids’ behavior (theirs and others) by controlling food intake.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have friends who did this. They’re really weird about dye and sugar but want to have the party look right, so the cake is whisked away right after singing. My secret theory is that the parents binged on it later.

This is something you’ll see up through kindergarten, but by 1st grade most parents have chilled out and are more realistic about their ability to control kids’ behavior (theirs and others) by controlling food intake.


How wasteful!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have friends who did this. They’re really weird about dye and sugar but want to have the party look right, so the cake is whisked away right after singing. My secret theory is that the parents binged on it later.

This is something you’ll see up through kindergarten, but by 1st grade most parents have chilled out and are more realistic about their ability to control kids’ behavior (theirs and others) by controlling food intake.


How wasteful!


Guess it’s not a waste if they’re eating it solo later?!
Anonymous
??? Didn't all the kids ask for cake? How odd.
Anonymous
Maybe kid has norovirus?
Anonymous
Maybe the cake was fake?

Maybe they forgot?!
Anonymous
Super creepy and weird! Tell your kid to avoid that child from now on.
Anonymous
This is even worse than when they cut the wedding cake for show and then serve you grocery store sheet cake. The kids didn't even get anything.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have friends who did this. They’re really weird about dye and sugar but want to have the party look right, so the cake is whisked away right after singing. My secret theory is that the parents binged on it later.

This is something you’ll see up through kindergarten, but by 1st grade most parents have chilled out and are more realistic about their ability to control kids’ behavior (theirs and others) by controlling food intake.


My guess is this is also a first child.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Super creepy and weird! Tell your kid to avoid that child from now on.


Agree.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Super creepy and weird! Tell your kid to avoid that child from now on.

Really? I’d feel sorry for the kid for having weird parents.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:??? Didn't all the kids ask for cake? How odd.


+1

How bizarre. Normally kids would be asking. Also cake usually a serves as an “it’s almost the end of the party” social cue, so this would be very confusing for guests.
Anonymous
very odd
Anonymous
And the nobody asked about it?
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