Restored husband's broken phone and discovered things I don't want to know...

[Anonymous]

Mobile account is under my name, so I got the new phone and restored everything from a backup. I've been managing his communications for the past few days because he's traveling, and I've realized this guy is a totally different person with everyone else, and not someone I particularly like or respect based on some of things I've read.

[Anonymous]

Like what? Mean? Cheating? Talks about you behind your back?

[Anonymous]

You have given us exactly 0% of the relevant information we need to understand this issue, OP.

[Anonymous]

At least he puts on a good front for you. Usually, peopke are aholes at home and nice outside. Now you know he sucks. What are you going to do about it?

[Anonymous]

Some sort of locker room talk?

[Anonymous]

What is it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some sort of locker room talk?

Based on her not going into detail and saying she likes and respects him less, as opposed to feeling betrayed by him? We can only assume it's this, until she telld us more.

Unless he's a goody two shoed Christian guy with a boring haircut, virtually all guys communicate differently with their spouses versus their friends. Not everything that is said between friends needs to be said to one's spouse, especially if the man is afraid you'll lose respect for him if he does.

[Anonymous]

This is who he is OP. Been there. Done that. Got the divorce to show for it.

[Anonymous]

“Managing his communications” while he travels? What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is who he is OP. Been there. Done that. Got the divorce to show for it.

+1

[Anonymous]

DH here: lol. This is clearly a guy who is not cheating, but has some opinions he is discreet about, apparently for good reason. He might even—-heaven forfend—dislike Kamala Harris. FWIW, I would not take it too literally when he banters over text with his guy friends, much of it is tongue in cheek in my experience.

[Anonymous]

OP can you explain a little bit more as to what you found that makes it seem like he’s a different person?

[Anonymous]

If it’s anything bad he is a moron for providing wife access to phone. And he is also a moron for purchasing phone insurance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH here: lol. This is clearly a guy who is not cheating, but has some opinions he is discreet about, apparently for good reason. He might even—-heaven forfend—dislike Kamala Harris. FWIW, I would not take it too literally when he banters over text with his guy friends, much of it is tongue in cheek in my experience.

Another DH here and nothing against anyone dislike Kamala. If dislike people who use the same rational/thought process that they used to come to that conclusion to justify why they like Trump.

[Anonymous]

High chance that this guy enjoys being a troll online, like most of us.