How to handle this situation?

Anonymous
Promoted to lead a department, along with another person. Our responsibilities have not been made fully clear. Management is way further up and there is no clear communication and more of a "you just handle it" attitude. Person we are replacing does not care how we fill the role. I *think* the person co-leading with me has been told she is more in charge than I am though I cannot be sure. I asked and got a very unclear answer, perhaps because she thinks I'll be wounded if she was (opposite, I'd be thrilled). I would like to not be in charge at all and I really don't care. She is younger and very eager in her attitude, has been slightly demeaning in past meeting (I was correct, she tried to insinuate I was not and then was told I was). My main desire is to 1. Keep her at arm's length 2. Have as little as a lead job as I can. How would you communicate this without sounding lazy or bossy?
Anonymous
I'd say some variation on since you seem so eager why don't you lead the charge on this and I'll follow your lead unless I see an issue that we should collaborate on
Anonymous
I would just let her do it and defer to her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would just let her do it and defer to her.


Thanks, I told her she seems to be leading on this and to let me know what she'd like my responsibilities to be. I just don't want a situation like this morning, with me taking charge and then her trying to say I shouldn't have done anything!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would just let her do it and defer to her.


Thanks, I told her she seems to be leading on this and to let me know what she'd like my responsibilities to be. I just don't want a situation like this morning, with me taking charge and then her trying to say I shouldn't have done anything!

Yes, let her take the lead but suggest what duties she could assign to you, so you won't end up with the worst pieces.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Promoted to lead a department, along with another person. Our responsibilities have not been made fully clear. Management is way further up and there is no clear communication and more of a "you just handle it" attitude. Person we are replacing does not care how we fill the role. I *think* the person co-leading with me has been told she is more in charge than I am though I cannot be sure. I asked and got a very unclear answer, perhaps because she thinks I'll be wounded if she was (opposite, I'd be thrilled). I would like to not be in charge at all and I really don't care. She is younger and very eager in her attitude, has been slightly demeaning in past meeting (I was correct, she tried to insinuate I was not and then was told I was). My main desire is to 1. Keep her at arm's length 2. Have as little as a lead job as I can. How would you communicate this without sounding lazy or bossy?


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