Extreme anxiety during drivers test at DMV

[Anonymous]

My DD is aa great driver. But she has now gotten so nervous at the test, twice, that she has bumped into cones on the way out of the parallel parking. I'm not sure how to get her to chill. She is a really good driver. Does anyone have experience with the private testers?

[Anonymous]

Can she go to the testing site when they're completely closed and do.a mock. test a few times? That should help.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think they have that in dc do they?

[Anonymous]

Get some cone sized empty cardboard boxes and practice.
If she's a great driver...will she get nervous ever driving?

[Anonymous]

She just needs to keep practicing. She shouldn't have her license yet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She just needs to keep practicing. She shouldn't have her license yet

This. Tell her she's doing great but if this is happening, she needs more practice. Help her get the practice hours in that she needs.

[Anonymous]

I understand what you’re saying but she’s parallel parked flawlessly at least 100 times: it’s something about the testers being in the car with her. Oh well

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I understand what you’re saying but she’s parallel parked flawlessly at least 100 times: it’s something about the testers being in the car with her. Oh well

Please don’t put this child on the road to kill herself or others. She is not ready. Take her back to the parking lot. Did she not practice with an instructor for 6 hours?

[Anonymous]

She’s an excellent driver. She’s had more than 100 hours. It’s not the issue. Thanks for your feedback

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’s an excellent driver. She’s had more than 100 hours. It’s not the issue. Thanks for your feedback

NP. We all know it’s not what you want to hear. But fact is when your daughter gets flustered or stressed she hits things. That is not a good driver. A good driver drives safely in all circumstances. I’m sorry.

[Anonymous]

She needs to conquer this, not have her mommy work her around this. How will she ever build resilience if she doesn't have to deal with and process anxiety?

You seem to be insistent on ignoring everyone here, but notice it's rare when we all agree - we all agree she is not ready and needs more work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think they have that in dc do they?

Yes, DC has a driving test that includes parallel parking.

[Anonymous]

If you knew her you’d know she has more resilience than everyone on this board. I don’t need anyone telling me I’m in denial or that I’m working around it for her. I’m frustrated for her and venting on a special needs board about my DD who is a better driver than most of the teens I see running stop signs in my neighborhood. She just happens to possibly get nervous around old, strange men in her car, a reaction I happen to think is not something that makes her a bad driver. This has not been helpful, not even as a place to vent. I’ll go elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DD is aa great driver. But she has now gotten so nervous at the test, twice, that she has bumped into cones on the way out of the parallel parking. I'm not sure how to get her to chill. She is a really good driver. Does anyone have experience with the private testers?

Why are you pushing her to drive?

[Anonymous]

She’s not ready yet.