Narcissists also typically aren’t bleeding heart boy or girl crazy romantics. Most narcs would never make an album, movie, and doc about loving someone else . J Lo is more of a fame whore than a malignant narcissist but she said her mother is a narcissist and was abusive . A claim she made in that doc in fact . Her mother was apparently a big gambler and tried to sell J Los wedding pics from the Marc Anthony wedding to Telemundo or some Spanish media outlets in order to get quick cash. J Lo cut her off and Marc encouraged her to speak to her again. J Lo hates her mom and loves and speaks glowingly of her dad |
any reason why her she doesn't distance herself from her mom now? I guarantee she has some blame on why ben/jlo are in this position once again. |
I don’t know, but I agree the mom is a bit problematic . She even was in a freaking gambling/sports betting commercial with Ben for Wynn Sports . I would love to know what Ben’s mom thinks of this. I think these two are probably stressing J Lo out and washing away untold amounts of money https://youtu.be/IFr0PpY5opo?si=E-Q-jV2eGmr2wTEe |
Narcissistic personality disorder is a broke that cannot be fixed through any amount of therapy or reflection. The narcissist has no self image; everything about them is based on someone they admire. |
Talk about armchair diagnosis. Just about every single human on the planet has moments of narcissism, it doesn't mean they all have NPD. |
You fools said he loved Jlo more than Garner. Well they haven't lasted a fraction as long.
Jlo wasn't his true love after all. |
Why did Maya object to Ben? |
Sorry, Leah? |
On some level she's still seeking her mom's approval? And if Ben was the only one of her boyfriends that mom liked, the marriage two uears ago was a double win for Jen. She finally did something right in her mother's eyes. Girl, heal thyself!! |
Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a marriage. J Lo and Ben A are both the type of people who need adulation and attention, two such people can’t exist in the same marriage. J Garner is a nurturer, someone who doesn’t need a lot of attention so obviously she have plenty to Ben and that how they lasted as long as they did. OTOH, if you truly love someone as JLo and BA claimed, you automatically think of them first, you want to do so much for them because giving is such a selfless act of love. Frankly, I think they both are capable of taking but not a lot of giving. |
^ gave not have |
If both have held a candle for each other for decades then I don’t understand how they can just walk away from each other. Idiots. |
Oh that makes a lot of sense! I think her mom said something crazy like she's been praying for a reconciliation these past two decades. Being with Ben is the ultimate approval. |
Well Garner kept getting pregnant every 2 years -Ben’s usual time limit for all relationships, and she was pregnant when she married. J Lo could’ve feigned pregnancy or something to make him marry her if really was the NPD monster some believe she is. True narcs are also pathological liars and don’t like humiliation. There’s no way she’d want the press to know he left her 72 hours before their trip down the altar . |
Yeah, she's self-centered but not clinically a narcissist. That's just everyone's favorite label for someone who is selfish. |