If another parent says something about their kid that's incorrect
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Anonymous
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... Do you correct them?
Examples: - my kid isn't allowed to use Instagram/snap/whatever, when your child has shown you their account - doesn't vape, when you've seen them - isn't allowed to use their phone after 9pm, when they're messaging your child past midnight |
Anonymous
| Yes to the top 2, for the third only if we are friends |
Anonymous
| Yes |
Anonymous
| I don't know if I'd do it to "correct" them, but if I'm friendly with the parent, I might say something about the vaping because it's health related (and assuming I saw it with my own eyes). If I don't know the other parent well, I wouldn't say anything. |
Anonymous
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Definitely no.
Not for a teen anyway. Younger- IDK. |
Anonymous
| Nope. If they aren’t specifically asking me if I have knowledge of their kids doing any of these things no way. Even if they ask me directly I’d likely say, I have no idea. I advise you do the same. |
Anonymous
| If I have direct knowledge, I will say something. |
Anonymous
| No only once did I tell a mom her kid was selling pot at school. Well actually I gave him 2 days to tell her himself. Then talked to her to confirm. |
Anonymous
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Depends on what it is. Your examples? None other than vaping (health). Otherwise, not my business. Tattletale mom will backfire on you and your kid.
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Anonymous
| It depends. If it's an acquaintance or just an associate, no. If it's a close friend, yes, of course. Also, I don't think of it as "correcting" them. My friends are my village; we're in this together. |
Anonymous
| What? No. MYOB |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
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No. And yes this has happened to me.
I have a small handful of parents (2 to be exact) who I would say something to because I know them very well and trust them. Things you would need to know...how the parent will approach the child with the information and how they will handle things (you could be making things much worse for a kid when you don't know their family situation), whether the parent will implicate and drag you or your child into the conversation with the child (some parents will stir up drama for you and your kid). Too many unknowns and too much at stake when you don't really know a person. So no, keep your mouth shut. |
Anonymous
| No but if they are being sanctimonious boy do I enjoy my secret knowledge!! |
Anonymous
No. I wouldn't say anything. For one thing, snitches get stitches. |