So tell the story. We're listening ... |
I'm sure most of the organizers are well-intentioned, but if the only photos are of white people, it doesn't feel very welcoming to people of color like my family. Just our experience. |
It doesn't even feel very welcoming to white people like my family. |
| Do the schools get involved if 7th/8th grade students from their school were known to be drinking? |
I kind of doubt it, since it was not a school sanctioned or sponsored event.
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I love it when people throw money at a societal issue and think they are having meaningful impact without actually engaging the community they purport to support.
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What does respectability and daylight hours have to do with it? Most high school students are not going to want to spend their free time, something that's especially precious for Don Bosco students who are made to work to earn their education, doing anything recreational with middle schoolers. I don't really have a problem with having an event for kids that has tickets that raise money for a charity. I think the white clothing thing is a little weird, but whatever. I do have a problem with the notion of explaining it to the kids as if they, the kids, are doing something charitable by attending a party. |
Sounds about white. |
Say what? I know a few black people who attended. Were you there? |
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Yes, several, according to my DC. |
| This reminds me of that leukemia fundraiser thing that a select group of high schoolers do. I am stunned at how much money these kids can raise. But here's the thing - how hard do they really "work" to raise money? It's all about sending out emails to their parents' wealthy friends. I agree with the posters who say that there is something about this that is unnerving. What happened to the days when kids held car washes and bake sales to raise money for their causes? They are learning nothing here except how to become fundraising shakedown artists. |
| Would be good if the teens worked to raise money by doing as a PP suggested jobs and put some sweat equity in it. Instead they want to a party. |
No. The people complaining know nothing about the community. They don't know about Don Bosco, San Miguel, Washington jesuit school, and the many others that the Catholic community support in the DMV. So many families do put sweat equity into supporting our community. They just don't want to hear it. This dance does have sweat equity put into it by many teens, the others support their effort. They are just mad their kids didn't get tickets and they are making up an issue that does not exist. |
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This is just another argument on DCUM that has happened because of the window that social media and the Internet give people who used to have no window into the other's world - its a class based argument. Rich people, and yes their kids too, raise money by having parties. Middle class people do it by having car washes and bake sales.
This is a party given by private school kids, and kids who attend are white, black and brown, they don't all look alike, but what they DO have in common is that they are all rich (relatively of course). |