Or, just as likely, he simply matured. |
Language pragmatics is a social skill. My son its similar. He has deficits in writing, spelling, motor planning, and pragmatics. He is in third grade and I too think he probably would have qualified for PDD-NOS in the past ('some characteristics of autism') but doesn't have enough 'restricted interests' to qualify under the DSM. Haven't done a full-on private eval yet (have been to dev ped, OT, speech - and our charter did a v comprehensive psycho ed exam three years ago, so we're in for another one this fall. My son is very social, but misses tone, sarcasm, etc. |
Parents accept an IEP designation so they get services, in't the same thing of doctors conspiring with insurance companies to give autism diagnoses. That's what MERLD mom keeps repeating, and that's hogwash. |
You go to a lousy, lazy doctor. There are examples of people doing their job poorly in every profession; just because you got a junk ASD diagnosis after 30 minutes doesn't mean that most -- or even many -- doctors hand out autism diagnoses because of "incentives." |
+1 Kids with language delays are more at risk for having language based learning disabilities as well as ADHD. Kids with motor delays like DCD are more likely to have co-morbid conditions too. DCD like ADHD can interfere with social skills and executive functioning. The DSM V categorizes all of these as well as autism under Neurological Developmental Disorders. Kids with dyslexia, dyscalculia, and/or dysgraphia have Specific Learning Disorder under DSM V. Kids who continue to have expressive, receptive, or both speech issues past preschool age will have a Communication Disorder under DSM V: http://www.dsm5.org/documents/changes%20from%20dsm-iv-tr%20to%20dsm-5.pdf --Language Disorder (What was previously MERLD) or -- Social (Pragmatic) Communication Disorder The point is, there is an appropriate diagnosis out there for your kid, OP. Again, IEP designations aren't medical diagnoses nor as nuanced or specific. Getting help regardless of the label is key. It's certainly better than the alternative. Kids didn't go to school, drop out, or were institutionalized. |
if she does fine socially it is not autism, period. is it even age appropriate to expect 7 year olds to understand sarcasm and passive aggression? it sounds like you might be over-focusing on things within the range of normal as you try to sort out the actually functionally problematic stuff. |
Again, you keep failing to understand what "incentivizing" here means. Didn't do well in English class, eh? |
I'm not trying to focus specifically on anything. I'm simply trying to see if what professionals suggest for my kid fit her. The specialist mentioned the things like sarcasm, someone leaving her out on purpose but not telling her why (passive aggression) as things that she is not correctly perceiving or noticing. Since she knew my DD's age and mentioned those, I assumed she meant those were age appropriate things she should be picking up on now. I am absolutely seeking all avenues of helping her and am not swayed in any one particular direction as to what she has or doesn't have. I have no hang ups about any potential diagnoses. I just brought up ASD because it was mentioned to us as a possibility for the first time and I was curious since I could see my daughter meeting the standard for PDD which is no longer in existence, but not ASD since she lacks many of the things for that diagnosis. But, if she would have been PDD at one time although not ASD, she would now be ASD simply for showing the signs of PDD I would assume... It's hard to get your brain around! |
Not everyone fully relies on IEP services. We have no IEP. We do everything privately so yes, the diagnosis is important as that drives funding for the services. For HMO care, the doctor directly or indirectly works for the insurance and the codes and diagnosis determine the funding. |
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Its impossible to say if early intervention helped or not as you have no baseline. Services are good in many ways, but some kids can do just fine without them (I'd always recommend doing them but services don't cure things). |
Regardless of what you want incentivize to mean, my point is that by diagnosing after only 30 minutes, you/your child did not get good medical care. You cannot extrapolate from your experience to the experiences of those of us that did get careful, thorough medical care and evaluations. |
The money trail of autism is easy to follow, actually, if you get your head out of the sand. This doesn't mean children aren't accurately diagnosed. It means the whole system is set up to encourage doctors to give ASD diagnosis for a much broader range of symptoms, and parents to accept because they are desperate for speech, OT, ABA, etc. |
Some kids who would formerly be considered PDD-NOS would not be on the spectrum (ASD) since they tried to make the criteria more coherent. PDD-NOS was kind of a hodgepodge. But if your daughter has issues, there should be a diagnosis out there for her to get her the help she needs. It may be 'just' DCD or that plus something else. Maybe ASD, maybe something else. |
Again, paranoid B.S. that you cannot prove. The articles you posted previously only highlighted that some kids who are profoundly intellectually disabled sometimes get lumped in with autism. Also, not every kid with autism needs ABA or OT. Plus there are lots of specialists that you need to pay out of pocket for like psychiatrists or educational evaluations regardless of diagnosis. There are actually evidence based instruments that diagnose autism, learning disabilities, or communication disorders. You would actually know this if you got your child a neuropsych evaluation. Talk about head in the sand. You cling to an out-of-date diagnosis. You choose to accept services under a diagnosis, IEP or not and pay out of pocket. Your choice. |