Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Talk to your kid lady. Ask them what their plan is? Tell them your 90 day plan for them as the owner of the house!!! lol
Your kid is obviously not a train wreck if they are a straight A student so maybe have some faith?
Maybe they don't know where to start, have something in their minds, want to take a break which if you set a limit I think should not be a huge deal.
Your kid has their entire life to work. Maybe taking a breather before they stay is healthy. I hate that in this country it's all about work, work, work! I think the most healthy thing anytime can do is make a plan. Know what they need, want and not rush into things head first.
It's also a very very hard job market.
I rushed into my first job when my parents advised me to take it easy. I wanted to move out ASAP. I did it in a month! Ultimately, they were right and I was wrong because I've been in career hell for decades.
Let things develop. It's been what like a few weeks?
Lord have mercy. It’s been two months since I posted this. One more to go.