Feel the same here!!! |
yeah, a lot of this is on the parents and kids -- you know who you are. My kid assessed his chances, decided to put all his luck on his ED1 school and never looked back or wondered if he could/should have reached even higher. He's just not a second-guessing kid wondering about his friends' choices. Know your kid. |
If you hate the ED school/game so much, they make it so easy not to apply. Go ahead and try your luck at "the best schools." |
Nope---ED is simply a way for schools to admit students who actually want to attend their school. Every student can run the NPC and decide if they can "afford" the ED school. Also, Harvard does REA, then literally defers over 80%, essentially knowing that if they "accept them in RD they are extremely likely to attend". So they play the yield game their own way. In 2023 that meant they had almost 7K students deferred and they then accept ~10% of those. Between REA accepted and the 10% of deferred who are accepted in RD, they have over 95% of their freshman class. |
Are you able to ED and EA at the same time? |
So you have a choice to make. And then you have to live with your choices. These are not toddlers, they are 17/18 and qualified to be attending a T25 university. They should be capable of realizing the options, the pros/cons of each and deciding. Hopefully this isnt' the first time they have had to deal with not getting everything they want in life. |
Yes! You only need to pull your RD/EA applications if you get into the ED1 or ED2. My kid did ED1. Had all but 2 applications in by Nov 1. Those 2 were only RD with Jan dates, so my kid didnt' finish the supplementals and pay the fee until they were deferred ED1. |
We're middle class and DC applied ED to a school whose NPC provided the best financial aid (and was also a good fit). But before DC applied ED in November, I made a Zoom appointment with one of the school's FA officers in October and we went through my tax returns and NPC in detail and I asked several questions about hidden costs, etc. I came away feeling very confident that I knew what the school would cost if DC were admitted. If DC had been admitted and the FA package exceeded the NPC, I would have had strong grounds to appeal and/or get a release from the ED commitment. Sadly, DC wasn't admitted to that ED school but had great results in RD. Of the 9 schools that admitted DC, 8 provided FA packages that were close to the NPCs we had previous run or slightly below. The only one whose package was above the NPC we ran previously was an Ivy with a massive endowment. The COA was about 25% higher than the NPC we had previously ran, which no one was able to explain. We appealed and they applied a minor reduction but it was still well above the NPC. DC chose another school for fit reasons mostly, but the FA issue didn't help. |
This is how it's done! Proving that Anyone can apply ED if they want to. Just do your research first so you understand the NPC for that university. Also, if you won't get FA, but don't really want to pay $90K+/year, well then ED may not be for you. You want to be able to compare multiple offers and merit offers, so you need to do EA/RD, that is what those are for. But remember, if it's "not affordable in ED" it doesn't magically become "more affordable in EA/RD". It will cost the same in EA/RD. |
Its FOMO or FOBO Fear of Missing Out Fear of Better Options |
On U Chicago- nope. The Chicago basher who shows up on every thread has no facts, which means she has not received the admissions emails. It does not take 75% ED1. It also does not take “every applicant from a given magnet school.” They share the list of ED1 top schools and the top magnets are way lower than the top private schools in their list- numbers are not mine to share but Exeter and Andover are the highest and low double digits ED1 |
I am an incoming U Chicago parent and I have no idea what emails you're talking about. |
Full pay family here.
We won't be doing ED1 because DC's first choice doesn't ED (REA only). If she doesn't get in REA, she will do ED2 to her second choice school. She's high stats and coming from a feeder school, so she will at very least get into her 2nd choice school ED2. |
ED acceptance rates for the top schools are all sub 15% now. how is that not a crapshoot? |
Hahahaha It’s not so easy. |