Man, kids are effing RUDE!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This entire thread is a way to show how much your house costs. In our neighborhood, the children were perfectly behaved.

Rich, kids are definitely more entitled that's for sure

Pretty sure this was meant to suggest the richer kids had better manner than the poor ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You never hold a basket, you just hand them one or ask which one they'd like and give it to them.

I have very young kids and this was the first year we really did TOTing. I was amazed by how many houses held out a basket of candy and then looked shocked when some kids grabbed a handful. Just put one piece of candy in each bag/bucket/pillowcase whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you seriously complaining about this? Do understand that every door they knock on, the owner receives them differently and may have different expectations. It was right for the child (8!) to ask rather than assume. Maybe the other houses told the 10 year old to take what he likes out the bowl so he did that at your house. the norms of Halloween (a dying holiday) is not obvious.

+1

[Anonymous]

When kids are used to taking 3-4 small pieces, they don’t know what to do.

You needed full-size attention, now you get to have your full-size snit fit.

Mission accomplished, OP!

[Anonymous]

we had a bunch of unsupervised middle school kids this year dumping bowls. They were also doing a lot of shoving and swearing. Our neighborhood does kind of a block party set up with tables near the curb. all the less supervised tables were empty. I was manning our table I caught them twice and two neighbors and my own table and politely asked them to only take a few pieces. I want to be generous but also want to have enough candy for the night. I don't think it's too much for kids to not grab candy. They will end up with lots of treats. I think especially sad because our neighborhood is generous and this left us scrambling for treats for the younger kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:we had a bunch of unsupervised middle school kids this year dumping bowls. They were also doing a lot of shoving and swearing. Our neighborhood does kind of a block party set up with tables near the curb. all the less supervised tables were empty. I was manning our table I caught them twice and two neighbors and my own table and politely asked them to only take a few pieces. I want to be generous but also want to have enough candy for the night. I don't think it's too much for kids to not grab candy. They will end up with lots of treats. I think especially sad because our neighborhood is generous and this left us scrambling for treats for the younger kids.

Our neighborhood had lots of unsupervised tables. Not a single one was raided. Sounds like you need to move.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is what happens when people stop going to church.

Church is abhorrent but it did exist to teach basic manners and enforce social norms. People behaved better when they feared going to Hell.

I am not even being sarcastic with this.

No.

Church kids are some of the rudest ill ill-mannered children out there.

And given who they church just put into office I don't think they should be giving lessons on manners.

Not sure what church kids you know because the ones I know tend to be the most polite. And I stopped going to church thirty years ago due to significant differences with the institution's direction.

So you haven't interacted with big groups of Christian children in 30 years then

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was in disbelief how many kids came to my door tonight and had the audacity to ask “how many can I take?” when I’m holding a basket of FULL size candy bars!!! One kid in particular took one of each full size (4 total full size candy bars)— while his mother stood there and said nothing. This was AFTER I said just one. This kid is 8.
My neighbor told me kids shoved their hands into her basket rather than waiting to be given candy by her. When she told one boy to wait until she gives it to him he said “no I want to pick out the ones I want.” This kid is 10.
What the freaking F is wrong with these kids and why aren’t they being taught common sense etiquette, manners, how to be polite?
I was honestly so disgusted.

Meh, sounds like you're more into humble bragging

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This entire thread is a way to show how much your house costs. In our neighborhood, the children were perfectly behaved.

Rich, kids are definitely more entitled that's for sure

Pretty sure this was meant to suggest the richer kids had better manner than the poor ones.

Hard disagree on that one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:we had a bunch of unsupervised middle school kids this year dumping bowls. They were also doing a lot of shoving and swearing. Our neighborhood does kind of a block party set up with tables near the curb. all the less supervised tables were empty. I was manning our table I caught them twice and two neighbors and my own table and politely asked them to only take a few pieces. I want to be generous but also want to have enough candy for the night. I don't think it's too much for kids to not grab candy. They will end up with lots of treats. I think especially sad because our neighborhood is generous and this left us scrambling for treats for the younger kids.

Our neighborhood had lots of unsupervised tables. Not a single one was raided. Sounds like you need to move.

or their parents could have kept a watch on them and discussed not doing this? All the other kids were a delight!