If you pair well with “alpha” men

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is shocking to be honest. I am confused as to what women want. They are contradicting themselves. If you look at their positions regarding gender roles in other threads versus their positions here it's schizophrenic

Everyone contradicts themselves.

People want all of the good and none of the bad with any personality trait in a partner. We want a man who will make the decisions about date night, but set up something we want to do. We want him to care about the kids and be proactive with their education and extracurriculars, but be totally fine with us choosing the particular schools and activities and adhere to the schedule we have set.

Men want this too, by the way. They want a woman who never liked sex that much until she met him, when she realized she loved it. And who is totally chill about any mess you make around the house, but wants to spend a lot of her free time making sure it’s clean and comfortable. And who keeps the kids well disciplined and in line, but is cool if you want to keep your eight year old up until midnight watching “Dune.”

Yes, everyone wants whatever works best for themselves.
It's in our genes.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m noticing that the women who are happy with “alpha” men had their kids with “beta” men. So, they get/got to pick where their kids go to school and summer camp and have probably already established their careers and living situations. Their “alpha” boyfriend gets to dominate restaurant choices when they go out and “dominates” in bed (although you can bet that he knows where the line is and never asks to cross it). Basically, women want someone who will make all of the choices they don’t want to make and don’t care about.

No me. All men in my life that I was in LTRs were "alpha". Lasted from 6 months to 18 years (with a dominant ex spouse). I wish I could accept a beta man post divorce, and I did try dating them. But I'm just note wired to want these men. I need a new "alpha" to lead me by his example and dominate in bed. I had very few relationships: dom/sub folks are rarely promiscuous. These are long term strong connections

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I started to take a quiz to measure how alpha I am but it took too long and I got frustrated so I just shot my computer. That's how alpha I am.

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

Alpha males don’t like catty remarks like that - just fyi

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

Alpha males don’t like catty remarks like that - just fyi

Lol! Alpha males don't like women who can read apparently.

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

Alpha males don’t like catty remarks like that - just fyi

Lol! Alpha males don't like women who can read apparently.

lol, I'm always surprised by the women who want someone like that to be in charge of decisions that affect them.

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

Alpha males don’t like catty remarks like that - just fyi

Lol! Alpha males don't like women who can read apparently.

lol, I'm always surprised by the women who want someone like that to be in charge of decisions that affect them.

but, but, but the ORANGE DRESS!!!

[Anonymous]

Do you prefer soft Beta males?

You can pay for them.

Anonymous wrote:Fine line between alpha and toxic masculinity. I left my alpha husband who ended up being abusive.

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Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.

I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?

The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income.

Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.

Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you.

No that’s not what PP suggested. Dominant alpha men are attracted to alpha women. I make over 500k/year and am deeply submissive to my man. Yes, I had to put my corporate career on back burner for a few years but I was building my own business in parallel and succeeded. Can’t stand beta men who want me to decide everything on their behalf and freak out when they need to make a crucial decision.

That is absolutely what pp was suggesting. I'm glad that you have a kick-a$$ career and a happy home life. PP literally says to teach girls its an either or - love or career. That is 100% false.

I think they were suggesting reasonable flexibility in choices of both personal life and career. You don't need to be all over his ass with your career talk, while you are making 400K as a side gig

You make $500k and dont understand the meaning of "either or"? LOL

Alpha males don’t like catty remarks like that - just fyi

"I don't [f-g] care if you like it." Amy Poehler.

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Anonymous wrote:Fine line between alpha and toxic masculinity. I left my alpha husband who ended up being abusive.

Do you prefer soft Beta males?

You can pay for them.

Is this really that big of a deal for the women on this board? I mean, it’s not like we’re all working double shifts at an all night diner.
I have a job that I like and that I chose. Working there is not some kind of hardship.

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"traditional gender roles" =/= alpha male

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is shocking to be honest. I am confused as to what women want. They are contradicting themselves. If you look at their positions regarding gender roles in other threads versus their positions here it's schizophrenic

PP, half the anonymous people posting on here as women are probably male incels.

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Anonymous wrote:What is an alpha man? A jerk?

I think popular press has made alpha woman or alpha man have bad connotations.

But it really means being proactive vs passive in most aspects of life - career, dating, kids, house, sports, health & fitness.

And being proactive and active requires self discipline, which many people don’t have.

Good definitions. Plus being proactive means you ARE being thoughtful and mindful of others.

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Anonymous wrote:I need someone who is more alpha than me. I am pretty ambitious myself, but also want to feel like the woman.

Can you talk a little more about what this looks like in your relationships? What makes you feel like a woman?

Someone who is as successful professionally as I am (both money and prestige-wise). Someone who stands up for himself and doesn’t let others walk all over him in general. Someone not afraid to go after what he wants in life, and exhibits confidence.

However, I also want to feel like the woman dating and sexually. I love chivalry… things like the guy holding the door or carrying my luggage. I like the guy perusing me… him being the one asking for my number and asking me out, picking the restaurant, etc. Once in a relationship, I don’t mind taking the traditional female tasks and him the male (me taking the lead in the kitchen, him helping me get my car fixed if it breaks down, etc…). I realize everyone won’t agree with this, but it works for me.

You are the dream woman.
Most men like women like you.

No, most men like women like that but don’t put an effort sufficient to be dominant enough in a true masculine way.
Just like a PP I LOVE when my man makes decisions for me like a restaurant we go to, the dress I wear to a party etc. By far not all men “get” how sexy it is. How it shows me that he cares and wants me!

This has to be sarcasm right?

Absolutely not - “honey, wear whatever you want “ sounds like a total turn off to me.

Aka I don’t care. I don’t even care to take a look. I also don’t care to think about an outfit I liked before. I. Don’t. Care. About. You.

Picking out the outfit is not about you. It’s about their control, their desire. You are just a prop.

No. Grow up.

That’s only if they are demanding you wear their selected outfit all the time.

Thinking of you in the sexy orange dress for your last Hawaii trip and saying Wear That!, is thoughtful.

Orange dress? ORANGE DRESS? Now I know you’re a man. Whoever said orange is the new pink was seriously disturbed.

Go tell Trina Turk