Exactly this. The other thing is that a lot of the parents who think their smart, are really just hardworking and lucky. Their kids may not get into AAP but the fact that they can grow up to be hardworking and successful doesn’t seem to be important here. Their kids will still get a great education. |
Using AAP as some kind of equity measurement is preposterous and ignores the blatant fact that the teachers can only do so much. The teacher can’t solve hunger at home or violence or negligence. The teacher cannot solve that. The schools can’t solve that. But a child tax credit can. All of this is moot though as housing is ridiculous and the end result of a lot of rich people in this county and fewer poor people n |
Why doesn't FCPS have the courage to address the lack of parental responsibility as the central issue here? While it might incur some political costs, ignoring the godzilla issue of lack of parental involvement and responsibility is not a viable long-term solution. Has FCPS ever had parent training for successful child education? |
https://www.aecf.org/blog/parental-involvement-is-key-to-student-success-research-shows
"Students whose parents stay involved in school have better attendance and behavior, get better grades, demonstrate better social skills and adapt better to school. How Can Parents Get Involved in Their Child’s Education? Make learning a priority in your home, establishing routines and schedules that enable children to complete homework, read independently, get enough sleep and have opportunities to get help from you. Talk about what’s going on in school. Read to and with your children: Even 10–20 minutes daily makes a difference. And parents can go further by ensuring that they read more each day as well, either as a family or private reading time that sets a good example. Use your commute to connect with your kids; ask them to read to you while you drive and encourage conversations about school. " |
There is no quota for AAP. This entire discussion makes no sense. Anyone can get in. It shouldn’t be used as a measure of equity. It’s not a requirement for all kids tho meet. |
What does FCPS do about parents who don’t get their kids to school or to do their school work? You are mainly talking about poor families where the parents are working multiple jobs so they might not be in a place to make sure their kid goes to school. And parents who don’t have an education themselves so they probably can’t help with homework or understand what their kid is doing in school. I know some schools send home books in K and First grade for parents to read to kids. They are Bob level books that are meant to try and help the parents with reading as well as the kids. I had a friend at a Title 1 school who showed me the books. They were saving them for their younger child when he was in preschool. How do you get the parents who are working a ton to the school to teach them what they need to help their kids? Most of the low SES families don’t have a GED, never mind a high school diploma. There are services to help people earn their GED but those are not utilized. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Families are not in that boat because they are dumb, they are there because there have been generations of families that did not value education and that is passed on to their kids. How hard do you think it is for a kid whose parents don’t read, don’t have a degree, and don’t have an interest in school to take their own schooling seriously? Who do they turn to for help when they need it and they are not at school? Families who are coming from countries were the government has broken down and schools are non-existent have no chance to start getting an education in their country. Their kids had no chance to get an education in their home country. They come to the US and the parents need to find jobs. If they are here illegally, then they are going to be careful about asking for help because they don’t want to be deported. They are working jobs that probably pay under a working wage because they employer can get away with that. Their kids might attend school. If they do they are placed in a class based on their age. Placing a non-English speaking kid who has probably been traumatized in their home country into an English speaking classroom with kids who have at least been in school since K and some who have parents who are supplementing at home is not going to meet their needs. It has nothing to do with intelligence, it has everything to do with circumstances that the kids and the schools have no control over. We are asking schools to find a way to solve long standing societal issues, which is ridiculous. |
Because half of whites blame the other half for all social problems, to gain political and financial advantage. Bringing the Asians into this discussion distracts the political narrative. Sorry. |
Funny how what started as sci-fi becomes real life, especially when we let ourselves be ever so slowly boiled in the DEI crap. First, it seems that you'd have to be a jerk not to agree with their principles, and then they turn from focusing the equal opportunity ideal to striving for equal outcomes and US education is DONE. Too many variables to control. It's just not reality since we're not all produced in a factory with QC. |
If your criterion for diversity is race-based, surely white vs Indian vs Korean counts. Perhaps it would be fairer to just base on objective measures like ability score, but there doesn't seem to be the will to do things that way as we've gone too far down the URM road. I attended a very prestigious college back when AA was new. All the Blacks and Latinos were coveted applicants and got special perks/offers to attend like winter clothes allowances in addition to full scholarships. The thing is some of these kids, whom I was friendly with, were poor and underprivileged like ghetto kids or just a generation beyond migrants in rural areas of CA. Others were coming from fancy boarding schools; but the university got to check off an AA box for them all the same. Still seems a bit off to me in the same way that basing AAP admissions on factors like race does today. |
So many of you on here patting yourselves on the back. Sure, only irresponsible parents don’t game the system (if you’re not cheating you’re not trying, right?). Only irresponsible parents expect the schools to actually educate their children. And any students who for whatever reason didn’t make the cut for AAP when they’re 7-8 years old are definitely going to get a fabulous education in those schools that the AAP kids are too good to even have to set foot in again. Right.
No one would have a problem with AAP if it was truly a program for the gifted. Lots of people have a problem with it because it’s a program for the upper middle class/wealthy. |
That's the point. It's not. But carry on with your "I'm not bitter." |
Which is why I think it should be the top 10-15% of the kids at each ES. But then the other classes need to have some types of differentiation as well so that we don’t end up with kids in the other classrooms who are behind with kids who are on grade level with kids who are a bit ahead. The kids who are below grade level should be in smaller classes that make it easier for Teachers to focus on their needs. Or they should allow the kids to rotate Teachers so that kids are in appropriate groupings for each class. But we need a place for the kids who are ahead to go and learn as well as the kids who are behind. I am fine with getting rid of the Centers. I don’t see the need for them but we deferred services rather then send DS to the Center. We did not like the social vibe at the Center and DS wanted to continue in his language immersion program anyway. He has had Advanced math every year and enjoys the LIII class. It has worked for us. |
Lol And all those kids who needed the social aspect of the center school (one of my two, for example), you don't care about them because you don't have experience with it. Broaden your perspective. |
This is spot on. This is why the poorest performing schools have $$$$ thrown at them with little change. |
So you get rid of AAP, then what is a teacher to do with a class of 30 kids with widely ranging skill levels and aptitudes? I'd like to hear from teachers about this not overly-opinionated parents who despise AAP because they actually don't care that much about their kids education and resent that others do and get something for it. |