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| It’s sad how obsession with money and prestige is narrowing down human potential. |
I have the time and money to work in my arts field now because of savings I banked from my previous intense career. |
| It amazes me how many many high achieving individuals break from the money worshipping herd and go for public service, non profit or other ideological jobs. What drives them to think and act different? |
| Money matters for individuals, ideology matters for all. We should thank and respect people who sacrifice for collective instead of being impressed with people’s cars, homes, vacations and such which is just for themselves. |
Only for the first job. After that it is your work history. I work with people who went to a large range of undergrad universities and many at the top have average state university degrees. |
The cushion they have to fall back on. Period. My spouse and I took the safe route. Friends from wealthy parents don’t have to worry that one mishap and they are sleeping in their car because they can’t afford rent. |
This is true, as people frequently get into traditionally selective companies (FAANG, Microsoft, consulting firms) as experienced hires years after undergrad. But it can take a while to develop the work experience needed to get there. |
Which is why legacies want to keep legacy admissions, even though getting rid of it would open up more/better opportunities to grads whose families don't have the connections. |
Nope. I grew up in a family that had little money (dad was a teacher, mom a SAHM) and they've given me very little over the years. Yet I still decided to go into the non-profit field. Why? Because of the particular values my parents instilled in me, which derived from their faith. My spouse, from a MC family, also chose to into public service rather than a higher paying field, because of ideals. Did I have years where I worked 2 jobs? Yes. Did I spend my 20s eating rama noodles, living in a small apartment, and without a car? Yes. Do I now have the biggest house in a fancy neighborhood? Nope. Does that bother me? No. I love my job, which gives me a lot of personal satisfaction. I earn enough to have a house in a vibrant community, and have savings. |
We both have family $. I went into public service, H is the corporate world. |
I’ve seen mediocre kids who barely got into state school get jobs at Microsoft, Amazon and IBM with family connections. |
| Yeah, marital connections, too! |
Maybe Bain Capital, but Bain & Co (the consulting firm) does not and has not ever paid $180k right out of college (not even in the golden years that preceded the financial crisis). Or are you referring to post-MBA comp? |
They are telling us we are supposed to know our place. |