You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
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Anonymous
| Assume two middle-aged adults, neither with kids at home anymore. |
Anonymous
| You're an adult. First date if that's what you both want |
Anonymous
| Well it was about 4-5 hours into the first date for me. |
Anonymous
| Is there any norm about this? |
Anonymous
| Once exclusive |
Anonymous
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This again?
Whenever you decide you want to. I do not understand why people play games with this. |
Anonymous
This. You want him to stick around? Make sure you’re a good sex partner. (I’m a hetero woman.) |
Anonymous
Exactly. Don’t be cruel to you both by stringing it out when you might be sexually incompatible. It will just make you force it to fit the false connection and then you both waste years to be in pain. Play and see if you like it. If not, see ya later. |
Anonymous
Nasty |
Anonymous
| As soon as he rolls up in that Hyundai SUV |
Anonymous
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Met casually someone on a second date to hookup. Sex was bad and since it was casual it wasn't even emotional. Vowed not to do that again, cried afterward, he was polite and everything but I just felt trashy.
Next person I went on 3 dates and we texted/talked a lot in between, I think it was maybe early November to around Christmas. Only slept together once before I ended up breaking it off. Not enough time knowing each other to be good sex, but much better than the hookup. Last one was maybe date 5, about a month in. We are in a relationship now. |
Anonymous
Frigid |
Anonymous
+1. I ain't easy, but I'm worth it. |
Anonymous
| 3rd date |
Anonymous
Immediately? What kind of question is this? |