I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
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Anonymous
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Not complaining just saying. I can attract women who are either cute but broke with no career prospects, or have a good career but aren’t conventionally attractive. This is because I’m not a terribly attractive man myself due to some genetically determined features that I can’t control (being vague here on purpose).
I have dated both types but I find myself happier with the cute broke women. Why is this? |
Anonymous
| You are shallow |
Anonymous
| Are you, not cute...and broke? Sorry, seems like that's what you're describing because if you were financially sound, their bank accounts wouldn't matter. If you had more assets, you'd have more options, considering that looks can't change. |
Anonymous
Yes. Everyone is though. I don’t think I’ve met a single person who doesn’t value shallow traits. |
Anonymous
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If you can afford a cute broke woman, I think you're golden, OP. I'm cute and haven't worked in years. DH is fine with it.
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Anonymous
You don't get out much. |
Anonymous
| Can you get surgery to take off the features? |
Anonymous
| Plastic surgery. |
Anonymous
Sure, if I were a billionaire I would probably not care too much about my partners income. I’m just upper middle class, not broke by most people’s standards but not so rich that I wouldn’t benefit from a second mid 6 figure HHI. |
Anonymous
Not an option unfortunately |
Anonymous
| I would go with the not-cute woman, since in the end if we are lucky to get old none of us will be that cute anyway, and you can just have sex in the dark and imagine she’s cuter. |
Anonymous
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Sure, if I were a billionaire I would probably not care too much about my partners income. I’m just upper middle class, not broke by most people’s standards but not so rich that I wouldn’t benefit from a second mid 6 figure HHI. Why would a mid 6 figure attractive woman date you, OP? You're shallow, so even if someone overlooked your looks, you won't offer her much depth, anything interesting, or materially improve her life bc someone making that much with depth knows they don't need more money. |
Anonymous
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I think you should focus on yourself. There is a lot of interventions for your face or whatever.
If a you already have a choice of women, it sounds like a correctable problem. Or may you can find other ways to compensate/ off set your issues |
Anonymous
I feel like the people who get out the most are the most shallow |
Anonymous
| Can you burn off the fat? Find time to exercise more? |