How physically attracted are you to your spouse?

[Anonymous]

Is it still there for you?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Mid 40s, 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Oh very. He has a beautiful spine (Thanks Patrick Swayze, for making that a thing for me), and a smile that melts my heart and great hair and the most loving eyes and strong hands.

[Anonymous]

I'm somewhat grossed out by most everyone except him. I think he would be a great model for a marble sculpture. Other guys all have something off that grosses me out.

[Anonymous]

I love men and my DH is very manly. I think about his body all the time. We have a very active sex life. We really got lucky finding a partner that was each our own ‘type.’

[Anonymous]

ya. 15 years together, I'm 42 and he's 40. I feel annoyed with him from time to time, but the attraction is always there. We both feel pretty lucky. (and both exercise daily and stay healthy).

[Anonymous]

Yes, attracted and grateful. Together for 5 years. Busy/hamster wheel days young kids and we both work.

[Anonymous]

25 years here. Not really. But the attraction was always mostly emotional/intellectual so as he's aged what physical attraction I had has waned as his waist has widened.

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask, it's over.

[Anonymous]

Definitely - we are of grandparent age so our bodies aren’t what they use to be but he is still really good looking with a full head of silver hair but with 20 extra pounds. We still have a very active sex life and in the almost dark you don’t notice the age.

[Anonymous]

not much. the belly fat is out of control

[Anonymous]

Been together 17 years. She is stunningly gorgeous. I know how lucky I am.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Definitely - we are of grandparent age so our bodies aren’t what they use to be but he is still really good looking with a full head of silver hair but with 20 extra pounds. We still have a very active sex life and in the almost dark you don’t notice the age.

Yep, candlelight is very forgiving.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:25 years here. Not really. But the attraction was always mostly emotional/intellectual so as he's aged what physical attraction I had has waned as his waist has widened.

Same, but only 15 years.

[Anonymous]

We’re 48/49 and have been married 18 years. I still think he’s super attractive. I haven’t aged as well (weight gain) but he seems to still feel some attraction.