Jen Hatmaker
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^^All of this. She is fabricating a story that is supposed to sound like the most romantic of movies. But I had the same reaction to his, "Come to me." Who speaks like that? And she speaks so dismissively of going through all the "building years": "We are enjoying our life together because we aren't exhausted from building one." But the struggles and triumphs that come from building a life together can lead to something so much more rewarding and *real* than whatever it is that she is trying to convince herself that they have. I don't believe for one second that they are handsy and kissy and lovey. They kissed for 5 minutes while standing on the street? He visibly moves away on live video when she tries to show him affection. When my husband and I were dating, I got so ill from food poisoning that I was sick both ways (trying to keep it not too gross.) After he helped me get bathed and put into bed, he cleaned up the bathroom and washed the floor and rugs. THAT is love and care for someone. Not performative buying them an expensive mixer so that you can get clicks and likes. I don't know exactly what her relationship was like with Brandon. We know that 3 weeks before she filed for divorce, she posted a long ode to their love. But I imagine that if Jen ever found herself sick with tummy trouble, Brandon is much more likely to be the one to mop up her $h!t than Tyler would be. |
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When it comes to the health and wellness of Big Sis’ romantic relationships I remember her Ode to Brandon Sweet Brandon post from three weeks before it all went to hell. Then, later, in interviews she admits to all sorts of longstanding problems in her marriage.
It’s all fake and performative with this one. As IF Jen would ever post a We Are Soooo In Love, My Droolings! Valentines post that wasn’t over the top and nauseating. We know, though. We all know. |
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"If you find yourself starting over way past the time you expected to, don't despair. Keep being amazing you, and see who the world brings to your doorstep."
"Keep being amazing you, and get yourself an agent who also represents someone who could benefit from your social media presence, and let her bring him to your table while you eat fries with honey mustard." **Fixed it for you. |
Anonymous
| What are the chances Big Sass posts a fawning Valentine's Day tribute to Big Sis??? |
Anonymous
| Does she even hear herself?! Building a life with someone is what we hope for when we meet our person. Good, bad, exhausting, whatever! It's a certain type of richness and fulfillment that I'm not sure she has had or will experience. |
Anonymous
| Unless someone is seductively waiting on a bed for you, there is no other context where texting or saying "Come to me." is romantic lol |
Anonymous
If a man is picking you up for a date, and rather than enter a building to get you, he TEXTS “Come to me”, that means, “You do the work. I won’t. Im double parked and I don’t have money for the valet.” How romantic. |
Anonymous
Exactly, if he were interested he’d pick her up at the airport. I can’t tell if she really knows the truth and she just can’t bear to not have a man or if she’s really this delusional. |
Anonymous
Lol. His big valentine love tribute post was to: all of the single people in the world. His audience is probably 75% from Jen (if not more), yet he still doesn’t want proof of their relationship on HIS social media. Sis. Wake up. |
Anonymous
| "come to me" has the same vibes as Tyler's fingey picture. Both repulse me! |
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Yeaaaa....this "come to me" line from Big Sass sounds.....not true! And if he did
actually say that---how weird! 5 minutes of kissing....? C'mon! And all the "we flew to Nashville, then we flew to New York"....can they ever just chill at his and/ or her houses? Like so many Instagram scammers, she HAS to sound like their lives are just SO busy, SO full of adventures, SO ex. cit. ing. !!!! **OMG, we met Trisha Yearwood, my precious beloveds !!! ** I really miss Jane Capstitcher !!! We NEED Jane to talk about the cruise, the gag-worthy Podcast with Sydney, and this wayyy over-the-top Valentines post !!! |
Anonymous
Thank you for making me laugh! 
Yeaaa, his little "trademark" fingey-in-mouth is soooo......I don't have the right words. |
Anonymous
How is she not embarrassed to make these kind of claims when we all saw his discomfort with her sitting close and giving a peck on the cheek? |
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Jen’s new book cover reveal on 2/17.
Hadn’t she already written her “manifesto”, something called Fierce, Free, and Full Of Fire? This seems to a new manifesto, the “truest thing she’s ever written”? Wow. But it’s not a how-to, prescriptive memoir, y’all. Whis the market for this? Will this bomb as bad as Tyler’s recent book? I can’t see how. |
Anonymous
| If you are kissing in public for five minutes you just want people to look at you. If it happened at all. |