Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

I also don't believe the drugs rumor, has never been her scene.

She dates men that are addicts though. I think Cris Judd was her only normal mate .

Diddy- not an addict but a master of deviancy (His “white parties” were where to get the best drugs and models in the city -a stepping out party for dealers , pimps, escorts/models and celebrities and he made more money than he spent from every party ) . Diddy is also a good friend of Trump and his kids. They attended his parties in NY.

Marc Anthony- cigarettes and coke

Ben-cigarettes and alcohol

A Rod- Steroids

how could she stand to kiss any of these men.

I don’t know but Her love life seems more dramatic than her actual movies . I can see why she thought a making a movie AND a documentary about her love life journey from Ben to Ben would be a commercial boon for her

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Back to holding hands. All pr. Knew it!

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I will give her points for bravery. She doesn’t hide . I would never go to a graduation party where I would face my husband’s ex wife and be the obvious subject of analysis and chatter by all the party goers and family members. I am sure the Garner family were there as well for Violet’s graduation. This must have been highly awkward for her

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Anonymous wrote:Back to holding hands. All pr. Knew it!

Keep dreaming.

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Anonymous wrote:Back to holding hands. All pr. Knew it!

Keep dreaming.

They still look stiff and unhappy. Maybe they are trying to work on it, but the fact that they don't seem to be spending any meaningful time together suggests they're not putting real effort in.

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I wish I knew how to post the clip from their wedding where she is singing in front of him while he sits in a chair watching. It’s so weird. Comes up on FB with caption about how she was treating him like a fan. She holds out microphone so he can sing but he just sits there looking at her.

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Here is a link that shows wedding serenade:
https://www.tmz.com/2022/08/26/jennifer-lopez-sings-new-song-ben-affleck-wedding/

Sorry, off topic to their divorce but entertaining.

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Anonymous wrote:Back to holding hands. All pr. Knew it!

They weren’t holding hands. He was holding a box of treats for the grad party . She was an arms length away grimacing

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Anonymous wrote:Garner once joked she took up baking because Ben has a sweet tooth.
I can’t see J Lo -as smitten as she is with him -ever doing this nor should she . It’s her way or the highway. She seems like she would poke him in the ribs , tell him to wake his adds up; and cut back on the sugar and cigarettes or have their chef prepare healthy meals only. The documentary showing scenes of Ben visibly uncomfortable in his own house as J Lo trots about talking to the camera is proof of this. She runs the show and wears the pants

well, no real man - the type she clearly prefers - is going to play along with this for too long.

True. That's one of her major conflicts. She wants a smart, male power player but she doesn't know how to share power. She does not understand the idea of mutually, in part due to her deeper insecurities and her narcissism, and in part because she also picks men with narcissistic vulnerabilities as well (hello Marc Anthony, A Rod and Ben Affleck). Her insecurity and her own years of power have fed her beast of needing control and she just lacks any significant true self awareness to think about and question her attachment to the ideals of a romantic marriage. She basically doesn't know herself. She should focus on her true love, her career and have relationships and have her lovers but stop with these fantasies. They're childlike. She has a ton of psychological work to do. One logical way of understanding why she recreates the same scenario is the simplest: Deep down she has not truly owned her part in her failed relationships and she likely does not believe she needed to change as deeply as she likely does. Her issues are deeper than she knows. You can see it in her doc, her interviews, etc. I'm sure in a couple years we'll all hear the story of this time in her life, how painful, how she survived, etc. It's sad but it is at her own hand. I think of the line in the song Desperado:
"Now it seems to me some fine things have been laid upon your table, but you only want the ones you can't get." The entire sad song applies to her.

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Where are they holding hands??

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Anonymous wrote:Where are they holding hands??

Different event
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13481385/Ben-Affleck-Jennifer-Lopez-hold-hands-Embattled-couple-rare-PDA.html

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Ahhh. Okay guys, they are clearly still together. Enough speculation.

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Love her outfit

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Ben looks angry.