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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Garner once joked she took up baking because Ben has a sweet tooth. 
 I can’t see J Lo -as smitten as she is with him -ever doing this [b]nor should she[/b] . It’s her way or the highway. She seems like she would poke him in the ribs , tell him to wake his adds up; and cut back on the sugar and cigarettes or have their chef prepare healthy meals only. The documentary showing scenes of Ben visibly uncomfortable in his own house as J Lo trots about talking to the camera is proof of this. She runs the show and wears the pants [/quote]

well, no real man - the type she clearly prefers - is going to play along with this for too long.
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True. That's one of her major conflicts. She wants a smart, male power player but she doesn't know how to share power. She does not understand the idea of mutually, in part due to her deeper insecurities and her narcissism, and in part because she also picks men with narcissistic vulnerabilities as well (hello Marc Anthony, A Rod and Ben Affleck). Her insecurity and her own years of power have fed her beast of needing control and she just lacks any significant true self awareness to think about and question her attachment to the ideals of a romantic marriage. She basically doesn't know herself. She should focus on her true love, her career and have relationships and have her lovers but stop with these fantasies. They're childlike.  She has a ton of psychological work to do. One logical way of understanding why she recreates the same scenario is the simplest: Deep down she has not truly owned her part in her failed relationships and she likely does not believe she needed to change as deeply as she likely does. Her issues are deeper than she knows. You can see it in her doc, her interviews, etc. I'm sure in a couple years we'll all hear the story of this time in her life, how painful, how she survived, etc. It's sad but it is at her own hand. I think of the line in the song Desperado:
"Now it seems to me some fine things have been laid upon your table, but you only want the ones you can't get." The entire sad song applies to her.

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