Boyfriend wants to introduce me to his family tomorrow

[Anonymous]

It was a last minute plan. We’ve been dating a little over a year and I’m not sure I’m ready to meet his family. I’m feeling a little nervous about it and want to say no, but I feel like it may cause some tension between us.

[Anonymous]

A year? Go with it.

[Anonymous]

It’s time

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A year? Go with it.

I haven’t even introduced him to my kid yet. I would prefer to do that before I meet his family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A year? Go with it.

I haven’t even introduced him to my kid yet. I would prefer to do that before I meet his family.

Welp, I predict your relationship not working out.

[Anonymous]

It’s not a big deal, OP. You’re not signing a contract or anything! Go, be a nice version of yourself, and have fun.

[Anonymous]

I would want to make sure his family wasn’t insane before he met my
Kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would want to make sure his family wasn’t insane before he met my
Kid.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s not a big deal, OP. You’re not signing a contract or anything! Go, be a nice version of yourself, and have fun.

OP here, I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but I’m a bit hesitant. I’m kind of shy and have a bit of anxiety about these things. I had a really bad experience with my ex in laws so meeting just the thought of meeting his family makes me really nervous.

[Anonymous]

They’re just people, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A year? Go with it.

I haven’t even introduced him to my kid yet. I would prefer to do that before I meet his family.

Why would you want to bring your kid into it first? That doesn’t make sense. Your kid and their feelings are far more important than his family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not a big deal, OP. You’re not signing a contract or anything! Go, be a nice version of yourself, and have fun.

OP here, I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but I’m a bit hesitant. I’m kind of shy and have a bit of anxiety about these things. I had a really bad experience with my ex in laws so meeting just the thought of meeting his family makes me really nervous.

That isn’t fair to put on your new guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not a big deal, OP. You’re not signing a contract or anything! Go, be a nice version of yourself, and have fun.

OP here, I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but I’m a bit hesitant. I’m kind of shy and have a bit of anxiety about these things. I had a really bad experience with my ex in laws so meeting just the thought of meeting his family makes me really nervous.

You were younger, now you are older and experienced. Be confident, friendly and nonchalant. No need to think of them as in-laws at this point.

[Anonymous]

Meet his family to find out if you want them to be a presence in your children's lives or not.

[Anonymous]

It’s time to step up and meet them. You haven’t presented us with any viable reason to not meet them.