Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Parents in the AAP forum have admitted to using tutors to keep their kid up to speed in AAP because they are so sure that the Gen Ed class room is awful. Several Moms spent an entire thread discussing how they were not sorry for appealing their kid into AAP even though they knew their kid would not be able to keep up and would slow the class down.
I am sure that there are parents at schools that are very focused on AAP who use tutors to get their kid to a place that they look like they need AAP and then keep using tutors to keep their kid in AAP. That is very different then the parents who use tutors because their kid is on grade level but struggling and the parents want to help the kid be more confident.
This area is a bit ridiculous in its desire to have kids in the most advanced everything, AAP is not immune.
You have to look at why people want AAP. Some want it because if it being the most advanced. Others want it to get a class free of the worst disturbances. Our kid had a year in class with a chair thrower. Evacuating a couple of times a week plus regular disturbances that didn't require leaving the class is not what most parents want for their kids
Agreed. Then people complain about the money and special services for kids with IEPs. There is no winning. You want the disruptive kids out of the classroom? We need to have specialized programs for those kids and a means of quickly moving them out of the regular classroom into those programs. That costs money. We need more options for small classroom environments for kids with emotional regulation issues but those cost money because you need 1) space 2) more specially trained teachers.
We also need for a more streamlined process to remove kids who are disruptive from the classroom that takes less effort from Teachers. Teachers spend a lot of time documenting what they are doing for kid with IEPs because if they don't the school district is sued. And they spend lots of times at IEP meetings because there is a requirement for Teachers to attend meetings and parents can call one at pretty much any time. But the process needs to be easier and there needs to be a faster process for kids who are disruptive whose parents refuse to enter into an IEP process or consider moving their child. I know a family that has moved every year of MS and HS in order to avoid acknowledging their kids needs. The kid was suspended multiple times in ES and MS. There is nothing the County can do.
There are kids who have been approved for private schools due to the district not being able to meet their needs and no spaces are available. And some of those spaces are pretty much warehouses for kids and pretty dismal.